Healing after a narcissistic relationship

Healing after a toxic/narcissistic relationship ends is HARD. It is a choice & it takes effort to commit to ourselves, to take back authority over our mind, opinions, beliefs and most of all, our value and worth.

It takes many moon cycles to bring heart coherance, will coherance, womb coherance and mind coherence back online. You’ve just experienced extreme confusion and there’s a good chance you’re scrambled with cognitive dissonance and brain fog.

I’m here to remind you that it’s temporary. You can and you will heal starting with acknowledging your experience. I hope the words in this post are calm for your wounds. That it feels like your sitting down and having a cuppa with a friend who also recognises unhealthy relationships has been through it, found the courage to say no to it and then over time risen out the sea of emotional turbulence into the calm ocean of a balanced life.

Before we get into the real nitty gritty I think it’s important to flag that the term ‘narcissism’ is an actual personality disorder. The term is being highly overused at the moment, which indicates that there are a lot hurting people who are playing out some extremely toxic behaviour when the rubber hits the road and things get real in relationships.

Just to be clear, in this post I am talking about narcissistic TRAITS and toxic relating/reactive behavioural patterns that can play out when we are in an unhealthy dynamic with another individual. The goal here is to acknowledge that you have said NO for a very good reason. I hope that by identifying the patterns in this post it brings ease to some of the confusion and pain you may be experiencing. I hope these words acknowledge your experience and make the others actions less about you and more about the behaviours you are bravely saying no to. This way you can turn within and do the big work on yourself, changing the patterns that keep looping you back into old cycles and reprogramming your world so you can wake up inside of the life you dream of, that you are choosing with this step you are taking today, to educate and say yes to yourself over anothers illness or confusion.

When we are healing from dysfunction it's important to recognise that people with personality disorders have a serious condition, their brain works differently and they need professional help. We are not here to dish out the same hate and shame they dish out when in an uncontrollable rage. Their behaviour is unacceptable, their heart is held in care. There are many many reasons for dysfunctional/toxic relationship patterns between people. Some of our nearest and dearest may be struggling with neurospiceyness which can also have a drop down menu of reactive and toxic behavioural patterns. Even those of us who identify as empaths and hypersensitives can fall into unhealthy patterns of reactivity and lqck of emotional regulation. Addictions, food and environmental toxins, so many factors can trigger people into unhealthy and dysfunctional coping mechanisms within relationships. Many want to do better, but simply don’t have the awareness or the tools to do better, to educate themselves and to communicate in ways that are healthy rather than unhealthy.

A person with a personality disorder has no true sense of self. This is why they are co dependant and cannot be without a partner, their chosen person, often referred to as their 'supply'. I’m not saying all co dependancy comes from personality disorders, I’m saying people with personality disorders have no sense of self without another. Because of their factured or damaged sense of self they study the person they believe they love and follow a strategy to get their needs met.

The strategy is tried and true and its literally ‘rince and repeat’ with each person they engage with. Until they wake up and get help. It isnt going to magically change with the next (more compatible) person, this is a story they tell themselves to belittle, discard and undermine the others value and worth.

The pattern:

By indentifying the pattern we can see it for what it is and recognise where we are at on the wheel of abuse.

◇ Love bombing

◇ Future fake and dream weave 'your my one'

◇ Pulling on your empathy and sharing their life story. Your the on ethat they trust, their confidante, their listening ear, its so healing to have someone who finally believes in them. Victim stories about their past partners and how much they broke them. Victim stories about their financial ruin and why they need a team player to build the future with. Victim stories regarding primary care giver and family trauma (which often is the core injury they received at 18 months old that fractured their sense of self) Ask yourself if they are in therapy taking responsibility for this, or are they projecting their wounding and leaving a trail of damage behind them?

◇ The wheels start falling off the bus when you have needs. Perhaps you've spoken up about the way you would like to be treated? Or you would like some more time with them (often they are busy winning the approval and admiration of strangers and ignoring their family). Maybe it’s requesting that they don’t speak to you in a certain way because you value heart felt softness when bringing up the hard stuff. Our requests for our needs and desires (aka boundaries) are often taken personally, no matter how much kindness and grace is put into bringing up the hard conversation they feel attacked. This is because of the fractured sense of self reacting and raging out.

◇ Communication drama::

• gaslighting (denial of what has been spoken and agreed upon)

• blameshifting (if you didnt ask for your needs this wouldnt be happening, sometimes it will be honing in on the way you said it)

• scapegoating (it's their trauma making them react, it wasn't them it was something that happened in 1488)

• threatening to leave or publically shame.

◇ Discard phase. When the relationship inevitably ends we enter the very painful phase of discard. This happens because they feel exposed, they know their strategies are not working, you have clued on to the drop down menu of toxic relating patterns and unfortunately you are no longer of value to them. The projection they have of you and how you fit into their world/dream is no longer of value, you had a role to play and your no longer playing it. This is the stage where many anxious avoidants and anxious attachment injuries get triggered and the cycle begins again. Until we choose to stand in our Yes to ourselves and No to being used and treated badly. It hurts! The truth is we have been used. We allowed ourselves to be a player in anothers fantasy and did their bidding, we consented. This is where we put on our big girl/boy pants and we soothe the child within who needs to know they are loved, and we are not abandoning them for love. This is where we do the BIG work of healing our attachment injuries, taking stock of our belief matrix, pull in our support team and we fucking level UPPPP!

Comprehend this, really take it in: When we stand strong and refuse to play into the communication drama, the individual with the dysfunctional pattern in tact will often respond with blind uncontrollable rage. This is because the strategy isn't working. We have outgrown the drama cycle and as soon as they realise their strategies won’t work they take action of the back up plan they’ve been grooming in the background all along. They have already found others to drag into the delusions of grandure or the pity party. They then rince and repeat falling in love with the next person, obsessing and eventually discarding.

It can take years and years to rewire our brains after this kind of manipulation so if you are on the merry go round of constant breakup - discard - stonewall - hoover - love bomb - future fake (with stories about how much they have realised they need to work on and change and oh yeah, therapy, they are all of a sudden going to therapy). Most people end up leaving because things get so extreme that they cannot take it anymore. We end up having to put our life jacket on, we say no to them because we are saying yes to ourselves. And that’s a good thing. It takes enormous effort to break the emotional addictions that have been created within the toxic dynamic. The void is enormous. Its fucking hard. But you can do this!

When we leave there is a loss of self for both parties. They have a loss of self and are filled with terror that they will be publicly exposed for their behaviour. At this stage they bring in their back up team, aka 'flying monkeys' to stand by them & they publicly shame gossip and lie about you making YOU out to be the villian. Their victim story and lies are convincing and here begins the smeer campaign, making YOU wrong for choosing something healthier. All the while raging out with threats and accusations about things you have done to them (when in reality they are pointing the finger 👉 at you because they have no sense of self)

Once they have done all of this and there is no turning back they will flip the bird, hook up and play the game all over again.

It is soooooo confusing and it takes time for us to truly own our choice to say no.

Often it feels we have been abandoned/disgarded but beautiful soul, you have not been discarded, you have been courageous. Someone reacting to you asking for the way you would like to be treated is not your burnden to carry. Healthy relating is hearing the other person when they let you know what they need. It’s taking the time to come back to them, responding with clarity about wether we can meet them in their spoken needs or not. Learning how to do things better takes skill and focus, it doesn’t just fall off a tree. No doubt the worst of you came out in this relationship and you are having a gag reflex when you reflect back. That’s good, this is the turning point, its time for education, healing, radical self responsibility, taking stock of your choices and choosing something else.

You have wised up to the ways that unhealthy people behave. Passive aggression/with holding and finger pointing are included in this. btw.

We are all learning how to relate better. Learning how to truly communicate in a way that is inclusive of hearing the other. If we are in a battle to be herd blaming the other for not listening there’s a good chance we are also not hearing the other. Often we are too busy holding onto some strong points of view, or judgements about the others choices, needs and desires. We can begin to break these patterns when we come into relating with a will to comprehend the others heart. When we have been in abusive manipulative and toxic patters for a long time we desperately need the time to comprehend our own hearts, to nurture our own needs, to calm our nervous system and recalibrate. When we know what we stand for we are then able to come to relations with clarity, letting others know where we can and are willing to meet them or not.

By default we have been raised in a society that is codependent and survival driven. This post is not to shame anyone for what they didn't know they were doing. This post is to encourage you that you woke up inside of something very painful for both parties and you made a choice. You said yes to you.

Tend to your wounds, take the time you need, but please change the story. You are not being rejected. They are moving on because you stood up for you. You chose this because your baddass, because you stood in your power, had your own back and you chose to say no to something that felt wrong in your gut. Thats why you’re not their chosen supply anymore, because they can't play their game with you.

You’re not broken, you’re healing. You’re not a problem to solve, Your a mystery to behold.

You will heal. Keep going.

I'm here if you need help book an appt for a reading here x

Facing our Shadows & Redefining Relationships

When Venus is in the constellation of Scorpio her expression is intense and intimate.  Go deep or go home is her motto!! When she is transiting the constellation of Scorp we are invited to claim our sexual sovereignty, sensuality, our depth, our shadows, our inherited beliefs around relationships, the occult, sex, magick, alchemy, transformation & death. Part of this process is seeing the things we would prefer to hide from the public eye, from our beloved or potential partners & from ourselves… Insert lots of ‘fuckkkkk I just said/did/thought that’ moments!  Karmic and ancestral relationship patterning is coming to the light so we can level up & love the shit out of ourselves and others on a whole new level! Shadows and light baby, no ones perfect, its time to love the whole picture, not just the pretty bits.

Shadow work is key with Venus in Scorp.  By feeling the feelings as they come up, without deeming them as right or wrong, good or bad. They are just energy in motion, a response to a perception or an external influence. This is what this post is allll about, perception, external influences, preconditioning & freedom through awareness. Venus in Scorpio season is where we step into psychic sovereignty on a whole new level. We learn to drive the ship through the storms, rather than being washed around by the waves of external influences. The only thing we can truly control is our response to external influences and our perception therein.

During Venus in Scorpio season, we will naturally begin to notice our obsessive tendencies, our escapisms, our fears and our control behavior. She gives us the fire of mars to just be gutsy AF about being all that we are and owning our imperfections. Paired with the transformation & death that Pluto brings to alchemise IN the underworld of ourselves.

We are spiritual beings having a human experience after all… We didn’t come here to ascend human conditioning, we came to master it, to own it, to find the kink in the darker aspects of consciousness, to play, to have fun, and to wholeheartedly intimate with life itself. Emotional maturity is being in mastery, not in denial of one’s feelings. We can be committed to our super humanness while simultaneously loving the shit out of our shadows. Thats the whole point. Our shadows are not to be treated as a problem to solve. How much can you love what you perceive to be unlovable? Venus is sitting with Pluto in the underworld, Hades himself saying “how much will you choose to love this girlfriend?’

Grab your journal & let’s have a look at what is hidden under the surface::

journal prompts for freedom of sexual expression and autonomy

What are your guilty pleasures?

What are you secretly yearning for but are too afraid to admit out loud?  

Our perceptions about sex and intimacy are being re-evaluated.  We are being asked to look at the narrative beneath the voice of the good girl/boy/person, the logical mind, and the mental gibberish.  Take a moment to free write, no filter!

What is hidden beneath ‘social correctness’ when it comes to sex, love, and intimacy?  What do YOU believe about sex, love, and intimacy?

If you were not worried about hurting/offending/upsetting/disappointing another person’s feeling what would you choose? What do you really want?

Scorpio shows us our patterning.  We have all been taught ways of relating in relationships that are co-dependent/avoidant and unhealthy. Many family units consist of one person/caregiver who is completely selfless and another whose needs and moods are the central focus of the whole family. There is power in identifying where we may be repeating old patterns or default patterns of reactivity.

Perhaps you have a learned behavior of cutting and running as soon as you slightly catch a whiff of rejection? Perhaps you know you’re settling for abusive toxic behavior but you’re frozen with the fear of abandonment?  OR, more commonly, social ideals that equate being in a relationship with success are really glitching you out and creating comparison paralysis.

What is comparison paralysis?  It’s when we compare ourselves to the lives of other people and hate on ourselves, retreat, go into creative contraction and stop doing the thing we love based on the narrative we are telling ourselves about other people’s lives.  My friends, no one’s lives look like they do on socials.  Guarantee’s the couple at the park with the Colgate smile and the chunky sexy ute/truck are going through their own version of shit soup. The truth is we don’t know that what our brains are telling us about their lives is true (that’s our perception). And there’s a good chance that they are either working through it or indulging in 500 ways to shove down the guilty pleasures they dare not speak about. Too shit scared to bring it to light coz it doesn’t fit the poster image of what we are supposed to want, desire, look like and feel like when we are big kids.

The habit of measuring our sense of self, based on external images that look like success, is a self-destructive pattern that is calling your attention. The ripple effect is to then shut down and go into contraction professionally, creatively, and sexually because our lives don’t look like other people!!! We are really just robbing ourselves and our relationships of their unique and true gifts.   All of this is based on societal/familial conditioning:: AKA someone else’s plan for you.  

It doesn’t have to be a real thing, that’s what I”m here for to help you pop some of those pockets of consciousness that keep you choosing people who dull your shine, or choosing the daily ‘hate on self scroll’.   Ready for your upgrade bebeee? Keep reading …

My friend you are unique, you have a unique set of digits in your dna, your consciousness, your astrology, your genetic blueprint.  No one can tell you what your desires SHOULD be, this is where venus in Scorpio comes in to assist us on our evolutionary journey.  She comes to illuminate what’s hidden and bring it to light.  So let’s get kinky about it, explore some edges of our consciousness, and find the tools to do that in the bedroom with our beloved, or in the bedroom with ourselves.  

How is your sexual self-care practice?  Even if you are partnered a daily sexual self-care practice is so important. It doesn’t mean orgasming every day, it means including your lady landscape and your sexual empowerment in your daily rituals. You are responsible for being turned on, no one else (that’s a whole other workshop).  Are you owning your pleasure and stirring the cauldron of arousal in the secret place where it’s just you and consciousness itself? Are you having a romance with your own sexuality when no one else is around?

I know, lots of thought-provoking questions right?  That’s Venus in Scorpio, she loves to upset the apple cart.  She comes to challenge Eve to eat the whole goddam apple in the garden of Eden. To eat from the tree of knowledge so we can navigate our way out of this slumber of fuckwittery we have found ourselves in.  Don’t get me wrong, I’m grateful for Eve, at least she had the guts to take a bite out of the apple! She knew (cos she’s intuitive AF, she’s a woman) that she needed that knowledge, her womb was pulsing with creation itself guiding her towards her unlimited self.

Above below within, Eve could feel the call to remember,  through the pulse of her pussy and her pleasure, to rebirth through her womb. She wasn’t weak, she was a sacred rebel!

Eve knew that the tree of life is where it’s at, the knowledge of the entire universe, the key to her freedom & the freedom of the children of earth too!!! Her intuition and her sexual power allured her,  not her sin.  

Did you know that the word sin means ‘separation from God’?  Is it true that we can be separated from God? Or separated from Goddess?     Beautiful Eve took a bite of the apple and the sons and daughters of earth had the chance to no longer live in sin (separation) because they had the knowledge to reactive their infinite sovereignty and potential. If it wasn’t for Lilith (the first mother depicted as the snake in the garden) we would all be asleep to the knowledge separation from Creator is a man-made idea, created to disempower and control the masses!!! Rely on a god outside of yourself and do everything you can to get browny points or you will live in eternal separation???!!! Ummm really? Was it the serpent that deceived her, I’m pretty sure she saved her… And this is where the Daughters and Sons of Lilith rise and claim the gifts of our foremothers. 

The truth is that it is not possible to be separate from consciousness (god/dess) unless we are preoccupied with our mind and ruled by our emotions. When rules and fear and dominion have more of a say on our lives than our ability to walk in self-mastery then we are living in a state of separation from source energy, source energy has not separated from us, it’s not possible. When we are in fear and contraction in our relationships, we literally forget that we are all aspects of the god/dess consciousness. The only thing that is creating separation between us/goddess/or the other, is the thought stream and the beliefs that bind us from the Great Love of the Universe.  

So here we are Venus in Scorpio, through the womb and the power of the pussy, alchemizing all that no longer serves, taking back our sovereignty giving him back his/story and collectively rewriting our new story.  

The matrix is falling.  The patriarchy’s time is up.  The sons and daughters of Lilith are standing tall like a tree, waking up inside of this co-dependant matrix woven through the mind of Julius Cesar and the men & women who served him. They created empires, and now the empire is falling.  And so are the relationships that live in a state of fear, you against me, us against them. We are one, we are in this together whether we like it or not. And Lady Venus in Scorpio is revealing the shit show right now. Inviting us to walk in union with Divine Love, having compassion, and giving ourselves permission to unravel toxic relationship patterns that are not aligned with unity consciousness.

:: Venus In the Underworld ::

23rd of October Venus enters Scorp

She sits with Hades in the underworld of herself, making conscious the unconscious patterns and doing the shadow work. <<::Preparing for rebirth through the path of surrender::>> This is the ‘death phase’ of the birth, life, death and rebirth cycle.

Venus begins her Evening Star phase:: Wise Grandmother Goddess Self

December 01 2022 to August 18th 2023

More on Venus’s Evening Star Journey in my next post. Until then, if you need support or wish to know how Venus in Scorpio is affecting you personally, book a sovereignty session here

I’m here to support you to thrive as we priestess the new paradigm into being. Sovereignty sessions assist in breaking co-dependant & toxic relationship patterns. Amazing, healthy relationships are our birthright, its my job to help you shift your internal matrix so you can stand strong in the world and be wholeheartedly YOU in your relationships.

Everything I teach has been handed to me through mentors in verbal traditions and channeled from my ancestors as they have visited me. I have over 26 years of experience as a channel & healer, 500 hrs yoga teacher training, red tent facilitation, Tarot, Relationship Mentoring, the creatress of the dream weavers astrology calendar, and the sovereign woman temple journey.  Book a session with me here to find out if we are a fit to work together, I have 2 openings for temple mentorship in November xx

So much love xx 

Jadee Boom Stix

The sovereign woman temple is a deep dive into the ancient feminine arts, earth-based spirituality practices, womb alchemy, the study of the celestial bodies, consciousness upgrades, sexual sovereignty, and co-dependency unravel.  As well as many other wonderful and magical witchy things xx

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Sexy Structures That Support Us To Thrive

New year blessings to your and yours glorious Queen!!!

I hope this post find you well after the festive season & your heart is lifted in hope for a year filled with magic & soul nourishment.

The numerology of 2022 offers us a giant UPLEVELL in the realms of relationships. 2/2/22 marks the portal point of the Divine Mothers’ return. After a looooonnnngggg age of HER having a back seat in social structures, this is the year that she takes her seat on her proverbial throne right next to her beloved. That's right ladies, it’s our time to shine!!!!!!!!

Relationships are the valcro of community & the mothers love is the fire that burns right at the centre of all things, there is no birth without her. So as we go through this giant societal rebirth, we gather together around the sacred woman fire and we birth a new world into being in a way that is inclusive of the sacred feminine. With balanced masculine and feminine this time.

The predominant association with MOTHER is often selflessness, sacrifice, she who puts herself last, the martyr who lays down her all and to goes without in order to be of service to her children, her family, her church, her passion projects etc. But that is just one reflection of the Mothers Love. THE MOTHER ARCHETYPE IS SEXY AS FUCK!!!! Which means she doesn’t need to go without in order to create a thriving community and family anymore.

SHE is a powerhouse, there is zero creation without her, she is the entire cycle of life, she is empowered in this knowing. When she knows her power and her value in the community, she takes her seat in the center of the universe & as a result EVERYONE AND EVERYTHING around her thrives.

So what are these sexy structures I am talking about?

Feminine aligned structures, the spiral of life itself expressing itself through our hearts, our wombs, our pussy's pulse for more, our fire, our water, our air of inspiration to take action on the ideas that create new realities.

First, we must unplug from this current matrix! Realigning ourselves with systems and structures that are sustainable for feminine-bodied humans.

The matrix (system) that is currently falling is a social system that leads to nervous system burnout, relationship stress, isolation & mental pressure. It is fed by the fear of survival & a long list of expectations that need to be fulfilled in order to be successful and earn our golden egg.

This year I invite you to tap into a whole new web, to tap into Source Code of Divine Mother for your provision. To the matrix of the womb of creation and into your unique feminine rhythms, to the true power of attractiveness from knowing, owning & anchoring into your value as an individual and as woman.

A truth that is available in this universe, if you wish to claim it for yourself is this: we can have what we want, and we can create a life of magic for ourselves in a whole new way. Without the burnout, the type A over achieving, and without the need to keep up with the Jones's. Fuck that mate, nobody got time for that anymore….

The Goddess is Home my Witchezzzzzz all we gotta do is align with her!!!!

You have a unique thread in your hand, Divine Woman your gifts, visions, dreams & ideas are meant to be birthed so together we can create a new & sustainable future for our children and their children’s children.

To support you to take the next step Karla Pizzica and I created a FREE WORKSHOP AND SISTERHOOD CIRCLE!!!

We recorded it, and here it is to power up your 2022!!! In this workshop & circle we dive into 'feminine aligned business' & share our experiences 'unplugging from the matrix'. We both have over 10 years of experience being self-employed as well as mentoring women to thrive in business and relationships. You will hear on the spot laser coaching for our sisters in the sister mind sessions (Karla’s beautiful offering in the Sacred Strategy Studio)'. Karla and I are both passionate about supporting you to thrive, with sexy structures, that support your life/work/love balance.

Karla is my dear dear friend and biz mentor, she helps women to create the brand that truly represents them, to tap into their message... You gotta check out the websites and branding she creates, holy wowzers, talk about styllllleeeeee... I’m so excited to introduce her to you! She has offered a very generous bonus, so listen to the end to hear about that! And click on the podcast details to access bonus’s from both of us.

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Real Humans Fuck Up! What then?

Hi Beautiful,

Jadee beaming into your inbox after a much-needed sacred pause. I needed to step back from sharing in my biz and on social media for a bit to reorientate and find my inner compass. There is so much information spinning around the collective right now and I really needed to feel anchored into my unique GPS points of reference before stepping back in with a renewed vision so I can be of service in the most authentic way I can.
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I am grateful to say, I’m back and I’m fucking ready for this next wave of collective evolution!!! Sacred Rebel are you with me?

So, what’s this got to do with today’s post? Everything!

I froze in the fear of fucking up.

I was afraid to say the wrong thing, to share untruth, to be hung on the proverbial cross for speaking out (again). I was afraid I would contribute to the divide that is already so heartbreaking to witness unfold. To lose those who I love because of differences of opinion. I was afraid to lose the life I once knew, the society I once knew & I was holding on to.

I needed to grieve, get angry, cry, stay in bed and numb out and get my head around the comfortability of things.

The truth is, fucking up is inevitable! In today’s age of information, how do we know what truth really is? History (his story) is written by the hands of humans and I often wonder which details have been left out. Right now, we are all going through massive nervous system shock as we begin to witness the details that have been left out coming forth and being exposed. And in all honesty, as I witness ‘what has been hidden’ becoming visible, I’ve had some pretty solid moments of doubting my purpose and my role in life in general. I’m a sovereignty advocate and I’m not feeling very sovereign right now, I’m a relationship mentor and I am frozen in fear of losing my loved ones. People are dying and talking about periods and sex? Farrrrrrkkkk!!!!

So I called my beloved friend and mentor Karla Pizzica and we went deep, we cried and leant into each other for support around the question “how do I share my message when there are much bigger problems in the world? It feels so menial in the big scheme of things”.

Obviously, that was a banging conversation full of potency coz it zoomed me into a place of this reframe

“how can I rest peacefully if I do NOT SHARE my message right now?”

The thing is beautiful, we each have a unique thread in our hands. We are each weaving into the new social system that is birthing underneath the noise, and your message, your gifts your dreams, visions, and your contribution are ESSENTIAL right now. In whatever form that takes. For some it is prayer warrioring, for some, it’s front-line work, for some it’s shouting from the rooftops, for some it’s being on stage singing up a storm. One thing I know, we witches are being called!! We are chosen and we chose to be here with this skill set, for this moment in time right now.

So Karla and I want to hold space for you too beautiful. If you are frozen wondering how to step forward in your business, starting, evolving, realigning, re-anchoring, this sisterhood call is for you! Let’s shift some of this cellular fear out of our system, unplug from the matrix and tap into the grid of the badass babes on fire to recreate our social structure from the inside out! Join us here

How do we anchor into our deepest knowing and stand like a wise old tree as the storms rage around us? How do we share our message in a way that is supportive of the new energies being woven on the planet? How do we lead with a softness that is strong as fuck?

Courage is not the absence of fear, but fear walking forward … Susan David

Let’s do this! We are weaving a new earth dream, and we need you to take your seat beside us in strength, softness, and weave magic like never before. Freedom is our birthright and the same energy that creates life in the womb is fucking powerful breathing through us.

Will we fuck up? ABSOLUTELY!

Will we have each other’s back? ABSOFUCKINGLUTELY

Will we rise? TRY AND STOP ME

Will we create ways where there seems to be no way? WE ALWAYS HAVE

Pussy power to us! Seriously!

Tell your friends.

Big love xxxx Jadee

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Seed Cycling :: Learn to balance your hormones

Girlfriends of all ages, shapes, and sizes, menstruating, peri & post-menopause. It’s time to get on the seed cycling bus! Our beautiful bodies need the right balance of nutrients for optimum health and vitality.

For women who are peri & post-menopause, or if your cycle has been wonky donks and you have no idea how long your cycle is, begin with the new moon. If you don’t know when the new moon is and would like to start aligning your life with the moon, sign up for my free lunar planner here.

Sisters on a regular cycle of 25 to 30 days begin on the first day of your bleed (Day 1). Seed cycling will support and assist your womb to shed the uterine lining when you menstruate and put the right juice into your ‘hormone distribution centre’ helping with premenstrual tension, mood swings and chronic pain.

Stick with it for 3 moon cycles to see results luscious ladies!! Instructions are below.

hormone Balance with The Moon & Seeds ::

New Moon: Days 1-14/15 — Follicular Phase

Day 1 of your cycle is the day that menstruation begins, or you first notice bleeding. For peri or post-menopause go by the moon phases. This two-week period (depending on the length of your cycle) is called the Follicular phase. The first phase of your cycle, from the first day of menstruation through ovulation or days 1 - 14/15 of the lunar phase, is when your estrogen levels increase and is the predominant hormone in your body. The combination of pumpkin seeds and flax seeds provides the body with an effective hormonal balance, the lignans in flax bind to estrogen and help to eliminate it from the body. The pumpkin seeds aid your body in the production of progesterone which is released in the luteal phase of your cycle, pumpkin seeds are high in zinc which is essential for progesterone distribution & healthy tissues (yep skin baby).

Flax and pumpkin seeds are a rich sources of omega-3 fatty acids. Ommmmega 3’s nourish your brain and nervous system, increase immunity, reduce inflammation & promote a healthy vascular system (healthy heart)

Full Moon: Days 15-28/29 — Luteal Phase

During the second phase of your cycle; days 15/16 - 28/29 estrogen levels decline and progesterone levels rise, aka the Luteal Phase. As the hormones shift from Ovulation to the Luteal phase (your uterine lining begins to prepare for menstruation) Sesame seeds and sunflower seeds support biological balance, which is essential coz supported womb’s = supported womban. 

Sesame seeds also help the body eliminate excess estrogen. They are rich in selenium and zinc; boosting progesterone and fatty acids, stabilizing progesterone and estrogen as your uterus disseminates.

Why is it so important to eliminate excess estrogen? Build-up of excess estrogen makes it very hard for your womb to bleed and shed the nest she built to create a baby should she be fertilized during ovulation. When your body recognized she hasn’t conceived, she begins to unbuild the nest (Luteal phase; your wombs autumn). Fibroids, brown blood & painful periods can be an indicator that your uterine lining is needing assistance to shed effectively. If you have these symptoms, book an appointment with your G.P and get on the seed cycling bus ASAP. Also, yoni steaming is an ancient practice of steaming your lady landscape to help relax and heal the womb space. Our womb carries information from the previous 7 generations & past lovers. This is why these practices are essential for our well-being. In my sovereign woman temple program, we deep dive into the way of the womb & sexual self-care practices to deepen into autonomy and break generational patterns. Click here to be notified when the temple doors open

How to cycle yo’ seeds :: How to make seed cycling your bitch!

Days 1-14/15 (New Moon), 1 tablespoon each of Flax and Pumpkin Seed — Use a mason jar and measure out the amount of seeds you’ll need for the next 14 (ish) days, depending on your cycle. Grind the seeds in a nutribullet or coffee grinder & add into your smoothie, fave smoothie, salad, soup or kitchari (kitchari is a winner for balancing the dosha’s).

Days 15-28/29 (Full Moon), 1 tablespoon each of Sesame and Sunflower Seed — do the same thing when you ovulate or during the full moon to prepare for the next 2-ish weeks.

Commit for 3 full moon cycles (months) to see the best results!

My sovereign woman mentorship is a 3 month long deep dive into way of the womb. If you are needing support with your feminine journey let’s chat and see if we click! (make an appointment to have a cuppa and a chat here sister, no obligations let’s just tune in and see if I am offering what your looking for)

::Other rad things happening::

empower your feminine journey with the moon, venus and sisterhood

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Virgo ~ You are the Priestess

Ahhh Virgo, the celestial virgin.  Did you know that a virgin is a woman unto herself?  No, she is not a woman who has not been penetrated sexually, a good little girl who is saving herself for a man because that's what the church is preaching!!  She is a woman who is owned by no man/woman, her focus is on being a clear vessel through which celestial energies can flow in service to collective consciousness, freedom, universal wisdom teachings & the return to unity through reembodying the feminine cycles as a way of being.  She chooses her path and does not allow her entanglements with others to impact her channel of clarity.  Her intergalactic telephone to the Divine through her vagina & her womb is her own and she owns her pleasure!... Yes, her sacred pussy belongs to her and her alone!

Here we enter the realms of the Priestess, the one who is the gatekeeper to the temple of your soul & your most vital energy.  In the medicine woman tarot the card that rules Virgo is the ‘Guide’.   It is no coincidence that the Priestess is one who guides her family, her community and the collective back to living in harmony with the cycles of the earth, the sun, the moon, the stars and the sky.  Learn how to connect more with the way earth in her cycles & your body… Get my free lunar planner here

She is the one who guides us to live a pleasure-filled life, to change our vocabulary from ‘should to could’ from ‘outside to inside’ and start living our lives from a place that is soul lead rather than striving on the wheel of survival.  

While our beloved sun is in Virgo we are being invited to ask the question

“Am I defining myself by what I DO? or am I embodied in my sense of BEING?”

 

We currently live in a world where we are being constantly bombarded with the next thing that we need to achieve or obtain to be ‘enough' (even in the spiritual community).  Newer, better, faster, stronger, it’s fucking exhausting!!!! How can we possibly ever feel enough when being enough is defined by what we DO and the marker moves just when you feel like you have almost reached it?!  This erroneous way of living has overtaken our ability to feel connected to who we really are and now we have an epidemic of people who are lost, lonely and numb hiding behind titles, trophies, social status, goals and plans.  

So how do we begin to make the jump from human doing, to human being?

Change what defines you.

There is a profound truth in this universe, that life is energy, it cannot be reversed or destroyed.  My friend, YOU are energy, which means you are an eternal being.  This means that your true work is on the inside.  Beauty is an inside job, perfection is an inside job, success is an inside job.  These are the only things you will take with you when you leave this life, the ones that money cannot buy.  To know freedom is to know that your life is your gift and your choice and you can’t get it wrong, you can just improve it by making different choices, to leave a legacy that is waaaay more valuable than gold.  The legacy of your being, being connected to life, being courageous, being kind, being the light in the darkness, being powerful to say 'no more' when the crazy bit giant companies want to rape and pillage our earth and put gas lines in her waterways.  

What legacy are you leaving behind?  What will the generations after you say about the person (being) that you are today?

 

‘I AND MY HIGHER SELF ARE ONE.  I STAND ALONE IN PERFECT EASE AND CONFIDENCE LIGHTING THE WAY FOR OTHERS WHO COME BEHIND ME’

The ‘GUIDE’ card is also the ‘HERMIT’ card in some decks, *the hermit within you is hidden away in the dark recesses of your being waiting for the guide to light the way on the path to the Great Being *.  There is a great teacher within you, a guide, a priestess, a seer that knows things that your conscious mind has long forgotten.  Are you ready to call hir forward?  As the sun graces us with the information (through light codes)  we are being encoded in the very fabric of the priestesses return.  We are being invited, urged, to take the climb up the mountain into our Great Being.

The Guide card is number 9 in the tarot, 9 is the number of completion.  When we arrive in Virgo we have completed a cycle, we have created a foundation (remember the seed in the wind in Aquarius?)   We have planted the seed, gathered the resources, sought wisdom and guidance about the next step to take (Pisces), relished in the bounty of Mother Earths provision, taken command to take action (Aries) (maybe you booked into that course, or started your biz, or booked that trip?)  We made courageous choices to bring more peace into our lives  in Taurus,  embodied the gift of conscious communication & sacred union in Gemini,  we stood firm in what we believe, knowing that we are the warrior king/queen we took control of our emotions and redefined our true success in cancer, we had our ass kicked during the eclipse season & experienced deep healing (Leo) and now we have a full power foundation from which to complete this phase of our journey.  To take the hand of the guide and be lead into the true essence of our being, where we can rest in the gift of simply being.  What foundations have you created in recent months that you can now build the next phase of your life from?  Perhaps you have been learning from the school of hard knocks, but your learning honey and there is GOLD in there!

Perhaps this completion is a feeling of knowing that home is the temple within you, where you go to meet with the entire universe.  A drawing within to be nourished, to drink deeply of the Well of Divine Inspiration.   *Your goal has become intimacy with Source, and you know that you and the Great Being are one.*  A wave of supreme security has washed over you as you enter into the greatest romance you will ever embark on.  

Take a moment to reflect upon the books, people, guidance, divine appointments (often called coincidence) that have occurred this year?  Have you been listening to the message in the gifts that have come your way?  Can you see a thread woven into your life?

*In simplicity and humility your essence of true being dwells.  You will feel hir calling you there.* 

What is stopping you from answering the call?  

What is your mind telling you needs to be done right now? Simply write a quick list, so you can get to it later.  Take 10 mins (10 hrs if you can!) and follow the call into simplicity, there you will find true rest.  There you will find the wisdom, there you will find the priestess, dripping with the sacred nectar of the Divine Feminine.  She sings the songs of the moon, relishes in the medicine of the plants, enjoys orgasmic bliss, feels the kiss in the wind and the wetness of the waters of life between her thighs.  She knows that her womb is the portal to the entire universe, and her pleasure is her gateway there.  

She stands at the door and knocks…. Do you hear her?  Will you answer her call?

Need some help? Book in for a reading with me here sista!

Take one step today.  Give yourself permission to seek Great Being(ness) with all of your heart.  

This is your legacy dear one, this is your heart xxxx 

** Content marked with an *is a quote from Carol Bridges in her workbook 'The Medicine Woman Tarot'  I am eternally grateful for this beautiful woman and the way she has changed my life through the medicine woman tarot.

** Hir is a non-gender term for him or her, these posts are feminine in nature but not exclusive to women only.  We are all beings on a journey together & this space is for all beings who are drawn to bathe in the river of ancient feminine wisdom.

Invitation to Cyclic Living

Podcast Episode Number 1

I created this invitation in the rainforest in Costa Rica when I was living with the beautiful Melissa & her son. This is an invitation to live your life in alignment with the cycles, which is one pillar in my Sovereign Woman Temple Journey. Knowing where we are in our cycle, and in the cycles of the celestial bodies is essential for sensitive women who often get caught up in other people’s needs and visions. When we know how to co-create WITH nature and live in harmony with the innate rhythms of our body, we are truly and deeply present to what is, and what is not.

Enjoy the rainforest sounds, brought to you from the Costa Rican jungle! Yeeeow xxx

Solstice Blessings & Ritual For You!

Today we celebrate the Solstice, the turning of the astrological wheel of the year. I personally love the solstice because its the time of year that we get to rest, take a breath, remember our ancient ways of alignment with the sun, moon, earth & tune into this ancient conversation with Father Sun in his journey through the Zodiac.

Solstice, being ruled by Sol (the sun) is an invitation to consciously weave our dreams & share our gifts in a way that is aligned with love & consciousness. We enter the 2nd quadrant of the astrological year as the sun enters Cancer, Leo, Virgo & our focus becomes fine tuned to the BIG PICTURE. Which is ‘we are in the cosmic revolution of light frequency’

We enter into solstice dreaming with the question "what light am I contributing to the whole through my gifts, my heart and my service"?

In the Southern Hemisphere::

The earth and her beloved children enter winter’s deep rest. A time for softness & dreaming, earthing and grounding, nurturing, and care. Mumma earth enters her wise woman phase & invites us into the deep rest with her, to tend to our internal fires & seek guidance for the year to come.

In the Northern Hemisphere::

Sexy summer has arrived, Mother Earth in her full expression of the Earth Empress. We are working with heat, fire and passion to alchemize, transform and carve a path forward.

We use the fire element & the cauldron of creativity to cook the broth that we will drink from when the harvest comes in Autumn. It’s a time of steadfastness, of vision, focus, and participation through inspired actions that serve the greater good.

It is my preference to work with the solar cycle, the seasons & my menstrual cycle when planning events, holidays and offerings I am wanting to share. I do this because it is the path of conscious co-creation with the universe. It anchors in deeper connection with Solar the Sacred Masculine (AKA Father Sun) within myself that needs structure & routine to flourish. I then layer my menstrual cycle mapping on top of the seasons so that my self-care is aligned with my womb & I am honoring the flow of my womanhood in her intricate needs. I work with the lunar cycle for my personal growth and my deeper soul journey, which is another post altogether.

As we contemplate light on this solstice during this pivotal time in the evolution of humanity, we are weaving a new dream together. A dream that is WE (sustainable community solutions) focused rather than ME (my empire) focused.

NOW is the time sisters, we who are called to share our gifts and be a pillar of hope in our communities. It’s time for you to say yes to the things your heart and soul want to share, to weave the world we want to wake up inside of tomorrow.

I have created a little reflection ritual for you to do before the new moon to help you glean goodness from the pain and celebrate your triumphs...

This portal when the Sun enters Cancer and the dark moon takes us into 3 days of deep listening is a recalibration point. A time of reflection and giving thanks for the gifts gleaned, lessons learned, help given. It’s a time where we stop and marvel at the infinite wisdom in the cycles of life. The seed that was planted in our consciousness and cracked open through pressure, that grew in the light of love from Self and others, became a sapling, then a tree, it blossomed and grew fruit. The harvest was gleaned and the leaves fell to the ground, the light grew darker and the tree of our dreams was called into a great big rest to prepare for the next cycle.

This beautiful, majestic tree of life is constantly ebbing and flowing in an innate rhythm. It needs no instruction, it just needs us to listen. So tonight, whether you are in the northern or southern hemisphere. Whether this is the peak of winter or the peak of summer I invite you to reflect upon the unfolding of your life. Life is unfolding, on its own, all it asks of you is to show up, to listen, and ask for the next step. Sometimes that step is to listen, reflect and rest. Sometimes it is to take action. Sometimes it’s to wait. Sometimes it is to let go. Which phase of life are you at?

Gratitude is one of the key activators for our inner light and it connects us to an expanded state of being. No matter how upside-down your world may be right now, I invite you to invite the light of the Sun into your heart and ask for help to see what you can be grateful for as you do the ritual below.

Timeline Ritual

You will need

Paper and pen to write on

Paper to burn

Paper to keep

Ritual items: fireproof bowl, lighter or matches, water.

Create a sacred space for yourself, light your candles, incense, hydrate and connect in with your beautiful self, preferably uninterrupted (but hey do what you can sexy mumma).

To begin ground yourself, walk on the earth, tune into the life beneath your feet and within every cell. Breath in for 4, out for 8 and come into your body.

Start by writing 2011 on your paper, write down all of the major events from the past 10 years, the year they occurred, what you learned from them, and what you are celebrating letting go of. What's your take away and what are you proud of yourself for in that situation?

Write and write, think about the relationships you have fostered, the people you have met and the opportunities that have opened because of them.

On a separate bit of paper, write down a list of the qualities you are amplifying with the sun!

When you are ready, state what your letting go of & burn your pages...

e.g 'This ............... I now let go, free from me may it be so'

Take a shower and affirm the gifts & qalities you are amplifying. Gift the ashes to the earth by mixing them with water, water your plants & speak your requests to the ether.

So much love beautiful one xxx deepest heart and wishes for many blessings in your world this season x

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Are you a red moon or a white moon woman?

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Beautiful sister thank you for being here, have you ever wondered why your cycle switches from full moon to new moon and in between?

Your womb is in service to your soul’s path, she is shifting in alignment with the information you are receiving and being asked to share. Make yourself a cuppa and let’s sit together. I invite you to come in out of the crazy world out there, to take off your shoes, to sit around the virtual fire that has been burning since the dawn of time, calling us home. Relax & enjoy the wisdom that has been handed down from grandmother to grandmother in the verbal traditions of sacred women's business.

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You may have noticed, and perhaps wondered why, sometimes we bleed on the new moon or full moon, with our cycles shifting between the two?

Well, there is a specific conversation happening between your womb, Father Sun, Mumma Earth and Grandmother Moon. For your purpose to be birthed & your sacred path to be illuminated.

Traditionally, the menstruation patterns between full and new moon are called “White Moon” & “Red Moon” bleeding. Your menstruation will attune to both cycles over the course of your life, as well as falling anywhere in between depending on where you are at in your personal journey. (We dive deep into the wisdom these patterns hold in my mentorships and programs). The movement of your body cycles between the full & new moon will be indicative of what is going on in your life energetically.

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Your body is always speaking to you, she's your intergalactic telephone!!!

Let’s dive into this wisdom::
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​The White Moon Cycle

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Women ovulating on the full moon and bleeding on the dark/new moon.

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When the fertile power of a woman and the full moon coincide, it provides the best conditions for her to express her creative energies in conception.

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Since biodynamics has shown that the earth is most fertile during full moons, this cycle is most traditionally linked to fertility and motherhood. If you are a “White Moon” woman, you’ll likely feel a surge in your intuition during your period, and will feel the urge to withdraw for nourishment and self-renewal. In other words, you’re tapped out energetically and have given the month your all, now it’s “you” time.

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This White Moon cycle became the cycle known as the ‘good mother’ cycle. Probably because of the focus on procreation, which in the industrial revolution meant, more children, more empires. We see around the world today that this aspect of womanhood is often given supreme recognition and ‘the good wife’ societal projection is forced on us from all angles. We, women, are juggling so much, from an authentic desire to provide a beautiful nest for our family, as well as because of the pressures about the way motherhood should look (we are going to shed some of these layers sisters!). The White Moon cycle is also for our projects, our gardens, our internal replenishment, it creates a rhythm within of deep rest with the darkness of the moon, where we are able to dive deep into the archetype of the wise woman and bring through this wisdom for the coming cycle.

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​The Red Moon Cycle

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When a woman ovulates at the dark moon and bleeds at the full moon.

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This cycle shows an orientation away from the energies of procreation and towards inner development, professional development, and our expression in the world.

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This cycle was seen by men as more powerful and less controllable, and it became the cycle of the ‘evil’ woman, the seductress, or the ugly witch, whose sexuality was applied to something other than the formation of the next generation. But what if, those of us who are ovulating with the dark moon is birthing foundations for the next generation?What if the desires for change that are burning in our womb is a part of the picture of what is required for the collective growth of humanity?When we are ovulating with the dark moon, seeds of information are being planted into our womb, when the moon is full, we are bleed and pour this information into the earth for her healing and replenishment.Also, if you are ovulating on the dark moon, you will have LOADS more energy for your projects, which is such a gift for women who have creative/entrepreneurial ventures on the go.

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Both cycles are true expressions of our feminine energies and neither is more powerful or more correct than the other.

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How potent is this information? It is vital in so many ways for liberation in our feminine journey, yet this information is often not passed down from woman to woman in the west.

This is why we have created a 3 Month Mentorship in the tradition of the red tent & the temple priestess. This transformational journey is where ancient wisdom nourishes the modern woman so that we can be more effective, empowered, and informed about the ways of womanhood and relationship with the natural world & our communities at large.

We will explore self-care rituals, sacred sexuality, sacred menstruation, and archetypal information that is essential to being a woman of sovereign presence and effectiveness in the world. This is a culmination of centuries of information that has been handed down from woman to woman about the ways of women and the intricacies of their cyclic nature. The passing down of this information was paused in the west, due to the shift into the patriarchal society, the good news is there is a movement sweeping our planet in a resurgence of ancient wisdom practices that nourish, empower and set our life on fire!!

Well, it’s not paused anymore! We are here and we have 6 spaces left for you to come and take your seat by the fire and be held. The yes inside of your soul right now is your true north. And Melissa and I want to support you to have your needs in the center of your life! Hit reply and let’s discuss how we can make this work for you on a financial level, hit reply and lets get this red tent party started. Your sexual freedom, the unfolding mystery of womanhood, this is your birthright sister and we are here to support you to have it all! Coz we know its possible.

As we end this astrological year & I prepare to launch of my 'dream weaver astrology calendar' I wanted to gift it to you for 50% off to show my appreciation for your presence here. Here is the link lovelies, postage is the biggest bit so get your girls together and I will send them in bulk to you wonderous women across the sea's!

The calendar is included in all of you mentorship, so hit reply and let’s do all of the things in one go!

Doooo Deedooooooooooo, so many fun things coming in the mystery school this year ladies! We've got work to do on this beautiful planet and we've got you xx
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New Moon Hugs Beautiful!!!

Jadee xx

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FULL MOON IN VIRGO:: Illuminating the inner critic/perfectionist & embodying the temple priestess

FULL MOON IN VIRGO:: Illuminating the inner critic/perfectionist & embodying the temple priestess

Hi beautiful, Wow Virgo Moon has been a potent one hey?!

Virgo in her light aspect is the sign of the celestial virgin and the temple priestess ~ she who chooses to be in mastery of her relationship with her sexuality, her womb, and her creative freedom.  The shadow side of Virgo is being so perfectionistic that we freeze, choke up and suppress ourselves.  The inner critic can be so ridiculously harsh on the Virgo full moon! Did you notice this in your personal journey? 

The ‘critic archetype’ can be super harsh with others, when things are out of our control. This is illuminated especially in romantic or familial relationships with the light of the Full Moon in Virgo.  If relationships have been clunky this weekend this post will help you with tools to begin transforming your relationship with yourself so that beautiful you can shine through a little more this week.

The way we show up with ourselves in our inner world is how we show up with others.  Healthy relationships that flourish from overflowing love and compassion are our birthright! I got ya girlfriend, sometimes all we need is a little more information and some support to shift things & tweak our internal compass around the things. Especially when we feel out of control, critical or perfectionistic, which we all do at times!

The gift that full moons bring is illumination. The light of the moon draws that which was previously hidden in the shadowy recesses of the subconscious mind into the conscious mind so we can shake shit up and make some positive change. We get to uplevel our dna patterning, releasing a little more family trauma, release default reactivity & create healthy sustainable patterns that support our growth & thriving. 

So how do we consciously work with our shadows?

the inner critic

the perfectionist

the controlling o.c.d part of us that freaks out every time someone is coming for tea and starts running around like a headless chicken making the house perfect?

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the hypersensitive part of us that is affected by other people’s decisions and energy so we micromanage and burn ourselves out trying to find a place of reprieve from the hypersensitivity.

>> Recognize what your mind is telling you.

"What parts of myself do I currently believe need to be perfect before I can share and openly express myself”. 

“What am I hiding?”

“What do I believe about my worth, value, and enoughness right now”.  

“Is it true that I am only loveable if I get this right?”

“What would happen if I just stepped back and let this person do their thing right now?” What do I believe/fear here?

Journal it, write it down. As the moon begins to wane and the energy softens we have the opportunity to really dive deeper into self-reflection, to be the witness. At this stage, we are not transforming or shifting. We are witnessing and just letting all of the monkey mind jibberish come through. It’s potent work!

>>Be real and raw and feel

Entertaining beliefs of unworthiness and unlovability hurts! Feel the feels with honesty, practice self-compassion, be kind to beautiful you in your inner dialogue and begin to change your inner dialogue so uplift and be your own best friend.

>>Recognize that you are doing your best that with what you have right now, and that's ok

>>Shift the story into its highest octave by thanking the shadow behavior & the belief system that drives it for getting you this far and letting it go as the moon wanes over the next couple of weeks.

>>Choose to be ok with your imperfections. 

Remember that your body is nature herself, nature is not perfect, but she still shares her flowers.  The perfection is in the imperfection. Any of the current behaviors and reactive patterns that you have are a result of preprogramming, from society, family, lineage etc. The amazing thing is that you can reprogram and shift things! But keep it real! No spiritual bypassing or rainbow farting kids.

>> Give yourself permission

Do the thing, go on the date, have a loud wild orgasm, express pleasure, express boundaries, take the steps, love our ever-changing body, ask for the raise. 

What is your soul yearning for right now?

>>Step into our zone of courage and say 'fuck it I'm doing it now.

>>Share!!! Life is your art. Your voice, your expression, your heart, your art. We have been conditioned to believe it is not safe to share. Take the power back, share anyway. We can always improve, and sometimes it’s important to just let things be ‘good enough’ for the sake of sharing our expression and our art.

>>Inform yourself, study, seek out a mentor to support you in your journey and up level. Every space holder needs a space holder, your growth and wellbeing are foundational to a life of abundance and overflow on all levels. Being held & inspired with new information and connection in sisterhood is a GAME CHANGER!! Put your needs in the centre of your life sister. The doors are open for Melissa and my 3 Month Mentorship ‘All of You’. Find out more here.

Flowers don't look at their petals and say "omg your so wonky get back inside"...

It’s time to stop comparing and instead claim our unique beauty. To reframe our relationship with imperfection and fully own our radiance.

"Small ego, step of the way, I’ve got change to make on this beautiful planet”.

Did you know shining is a feminine quality? 

Shakti is the feminine aspect of life force, she is the sparkly shiny aspect, she likes to be adorned with radiance, adored, and witnessed.

Shiva is the masculine aspect and is the conscious, witness, observer. 

For our masculine and feminine to be unified we NEED to shine & to stop playing small.  When we allow the small ego who is addicted to staying meek, mild, humble, small, and unseen to run the show, we are actually in our masculine (cave, hiding, witnessing).  Denying our feminine NEED TO SHINE is detrimental to our relationships and our sense of soul freedom. It’s detrimental to this world that is in dire need of Divine Mothers love. When we play the ‘small game’, by limiting our expression, playfulness, and innate feminine radiance we are in effect perpetuating shadow masculine patriarchal systems that seek to control our sovereignty through suppression. 

Forming a healthy sense of self (ego) is imperative to recognize our gifts & share generously of ourselves.  When we cultivate a beautiful relationship with our own heart & know that the mind is our tool for freedom rather than a dictator that keeps us in a cage, we claim our sovereignty and our freedom. 

Let's face it, you have adventures to take, lips to kiss, love to make, sunrises to witness, clients to serve, children to raise, leaders to rise up, impact to make in this world that DESPERATELY NEEDS YOU TO SHINE IN ALL OF YOUR UNIQUENESS!!!! 

When we dim our own shine the result is, we often feel unseen & unappreciated. Our sexual attractiveness is dimmed and with it our vital connection with the sacred thread of feminine power that resides within this body temple. Not being seen by those that we love is painful and it aches. But it doesn’t need to be this way, you absolutely can change it, I know because I did it! Every menstrual cycle and moon cycle is an uplevel! And personal growth can be fun and sexy AF!

'My body, My Temple'.

This is the name of this beautiful painting by Autumn Skye Morrison. I chose it for Virgo month on my dream weavers astrology calendar because it represents the path of the temple priestess and the mystery that resides within.

Cultivating a relationship with your body as your temple opens doorways of remembering and restoration.

To freedom, sovereignty, and connection to Divine Mother.

In our 3 month mentorship, we lay out a foundation for sisters to transform their relationship with themselves as women, to shift painful conditioning about who we should be, and instead to relate to ourselves from a place of joy, ease, curiosity, and pleasure!

What’s included in All of you?

Embodiment practices, temple arts, circle, sisterhood, sacred sexuality, menstrual cycle mapping (on a physical and metaphysical level), moon cycles and seasons, archetypes, relationship and communication tools and practices. We only have a few spaces left as we made a choice to have a small circle of 13 women. Your needs are important, we are here to support you to usher in the change your soul is craving.  To be seen, heard, and radiantly in love with yourself as a woman. 

This week has been massive for me personally, with some really big challenges thrown in my direction.  The printers sent me back the artwork on my calendar saying that canva designed art cant be printed in high quality from a professional printer. I didn’t know that. I’ve been creating this calendar on canva (its a design platform) for 4 years now, not knowing any differently. After all of that work, I have been informed I need to do it again in another design platform.  I can't even tell you how fucking gutted I was when I heard about this, I went to bed and cried for a day. 

When I went to sleep I affirmed ‘in the morning I’ll know what to do’ (Subconscious mind hack).

I woke up, did me practises and dropped into my womb and my body. My heart was saying that it's more suffocating to NOT share than it is to wait until my creations are perfect before I share. 

The truth is that perfection is in the eye of the beholder (like beauty) & this Virgo moon is illuminating where the inner critic takes no prisoners.  I am super aware of the ways that perfectionism & all of the ways I sabotage myself with the ‘not good enough’.  (Thank you Virgo!!)

This is all so reflective of life, especially around the things we beat ourselves up about. “I should have known”. Should I? How? I did the best that I could with the information I had. I was undereducated. The critic in my head was such a mean ass bitch. But it’s up to me to listen to those stories, or walk in compassion and kindness.

I sent the calendar off to print under the full moon anyway this morning, yeeeewww!!! I'm super disappointed because now I'm way behind schedule, but this is a powerful choice point where I can shrink or shine.  I choose to shine bebeeee!

The creative power that resides in my womb wanted to create something new for the collective. She wanted beautiful art, a calendar that follows the zodiac signs instead of January, Feb. That honors the equinoxes, solstices, eclipses, that show the moons each day and where I can map my cycle & tap into this rich universal conversation that is happening always!

Cycle mapping is a primary tool to weave us IN to the sacred feminine thread as a collective. To realign with the seasons and cycles, to play with the feminine archetypes and fall in love with being a woman. Committing to these practises shakes a little bit more of the current preprogrammed patriarchal structures off us & empowers us to step more into deeply aligned living as feminine (and masculine) beings who beat with the heart of Divine Mother/Divine Father equally. Should I have stopped that beautiful desire because it’s not perfect and the colors arnt’t gonna pop the way I wanted them to? Fuck no!!! I'm so honored to be co-creating with Autumn Skye Morrison, she is one of my favourite artists. Full power sister.  I know so many homes will be blessed by her potency and mine united in this co-creation… So I’m choosing to be creatively free & do my little piece of sacred rebellion to dismantle a system that is entirely disconnected from the feminine cycles!!! Who’s joining me in this sacred rebellion?!  xxxx

Speaking of sacred rebels. Melissa and I are 2 baddass women who have thrown ourselves into the world of reclaiming our freedom. Our work is a culmination of both of our journeys into sexual freedom and wholeness from abuse and suppression. Together we are each bringing 20 plus years of study and practice of this sacred path of feminine empowerment. We are gifting each sister who joins us with one of these beautiful calendars. Click here to join us.

Thank you for reading!

I’m so grateful for every single Divine Heart here in our sacred woman tribe…

So much love AND rock & roll!

About Jade:: Jade is a feminine energy mentor, channel, yoga teacher, and the creatress of the sacred women mystery school.

Her passion is in helping women break the cycle of over-giving and undervaluing themselves, to claim their worth in the world and dive into the magick and mystery of womanhood. She is an advocate for sacred feminine leadership and co-creation.

You can find her meandering under the moonlight, shakin what her Mumma gave her it on dusty dance floors at festivals, enjoying friends, family, fires and a shit loads of giggle. She is wooo AF, real, raw, and open in her channeling and facilitation. Her keep it real spirituality is refreshing & honest and her heart of compassion & kindness brings a potent presence to her clients and students alike.

Where they can sit by the fire of ancient wisdom and hear the Great Mothers Love, washing and tending to the wounds that patriarchal structures have left in men and women alike.

She is available for readings, mentoring, workshops and circles both online and in-person on the Sunshine Coast in Australia xxx

YOUR WOMB IS THE ALCHEMIST in your Relationships

I’m day 25 today, my womb has officially moved into her winter phase, where I sit with the wise woman within me and the wise women around me and we have a really honest conversation.  There are so many emotions boiling up inside of me as my clever womb prepares to shed the information she has gathered towards herself throughout the month.  Woaw it’s been a big month!!!!

My beloved’s mum is in the UK, currently fighting for her life with covid. Today we have news that she has finally gone into ICU after her battling on her own in her little unit for the last 2 weeks. My poor honey has been losing his mind with worry, there’s literally nothing he could do from here. So I’ve been holding it down for him and his beautiful heart as it has been feeling feels that are just so damn intense!

Our womb is the portal of life, of transformation and death.  When we are ovulating (or when the moon is full for women who no longer bleed) our womb is a magnet pulling towards herself the information she needs for our soul’s evolution and purpose-filled living.  During ovulation (or full moon), we have a powerful opportunity to amplify and call in. Sometimes this is a portal of transformation for the feels that our loved ones do not understand or cannot currently process on their own. This can be unmet needs/unprocessed emotions etc. Especially for our sensitives and empaths who feel the feels!!

Alchemy is the process of transforming lead (pain body/limitations/beliefs) into gold (heart frequency/forgiveness/freedom/changes in beliefs).

So for me right now, after a rather intense month on the relationship front, my body now day 25 in her cycle has become the prayer. She is the alchemist, she is transforming the information she has gathered while my beloved has walked the oh so life-changing path of the possibility of never seeing his mother again.  And now I get to walk with this consciously as my womb sheds her lining and the cycle completes.

The emotion that stirs in me as I write this is INTENSE!  Tears are streaming down my cheeks. As the waves roll through and I witness the opportunity to spiral up and down simultaneously I stand in the gateway of soul transformation for me, my beloved, and our sacred partnership.

It’s in this premenstrual phase that most of us fall off the bus and blow up our relationship because we can see all of things and the feels feel so damn real !! Where 2 weeks ago our body was the magnet, now she has become the magnifying glass, the all-seeing eye that no one can hide from, not even us! hahahaa

It’s no wonder so many women loath this time coz the crazy lady comes loaded with grenades in 10 pockets ready to blow shit up!!! However, when we learn how to work with this phase, it is truly a point of self-mastery and transformation.

The mastery of emotion, rather than the suppression of emotion, is our portal of power filled womanhood.  But this requires learning how to feel the feels, being allowed to have feelings, taking full responsibility for our feelings without blaming (very common for empaths), and weaving some serious woooooo girlfriends. Witchy power.

We are the portal of life!!! If we can create life, we can create the life we want to wake up inside of. Even though my womb did not receive seed in the form of a baby, she received the light codes and the information that I need to spiral up with the next cycle. 

So what do we do with this intensity of emotion? Let’s get practical::

• Fuck it out, or make slow deep love, get your beloved to play with your crystal wand and dearmor your beautiful yoni while you breathe and sigh and let it out. (Melissa teaches us this in our mentorship btw).

  (Unfortunately, making love to commit to an alchemical love-making practice isn’t something we can do right now as he is at work over the next 72 hours and I have gone to the red tent (my actual tent in the rainforest at my mum’s). So instead I will make slow deep love to myself which brings me to the next point.

• De armor your beautiful yoni, holding your cervix with rose quarts crystalline energy (or whatever crystal you are working with), and call in the love of the universe to filter through the sacred feminine grail gates of your body. Oh so much love! Sexual empowerment is an inside job family! But for me right now, I have to choose it, coz the stories my monkey mind is gibbering on about are fucking intense and I almost want to believe them! Sometimes I do, and then I reframe, which brings me to the next point.

• Reframe the stories. Where the mind likes to go to default victim mode because of all of the over giving many of us willingly participate in regularly (hahaha omg, it’s such a journey to unravel this one, is anyone with me on this? Woaw! So much compassion for our beautiful loving hearts that just want to nurture, to serve, to love, and be loved) … Take the story, write it down, reframe it. We have to consciously choose to love our shadows in our premenstrual phase.

• Yoni steam (also in our mentorship), blog to come about this very soon

• Prepare with nutrition so your ready for your moon time (either the red river flowing or the dark moon for our silver queens) Make soups and juices, chocolate, stock up. I am right now coz I know this is gonna be a BIG LET GO!!!!! Carving out space in your diary and block off time just for you, your womb, and your guidance team. Right now I’m getting excited to see what the wise women show me for our collective and the next cycle of my relationships.

In closing our relationship with ourselves is the most important relationship we will ever have, how we walk this path of deep emotionality, which IS the feminine aspect is how we navigate our relationships in general.  Women’s wisdom and the path of sacred sexuality and womb healing is really a call back to sovereignty, to learning how to embody the wild nature of the feminine as she serves consciousness one spiral at a time. 

If you haven’t already, join Melissa and I for our free week of sacred sexuality and womb wisdom!!

we are offering workshops every day for 5 days. 

This is a small taste of our 3-month mentorship starting in March. 

Our free week is our gift to you to empower you with information and sexual education that you may not have received as a young woman.  And if you resonate, maybe you are one of 13 women to join us for 3 months of deep-diving into all things woman and pleasure.?? (We only have 10 spots left btw, so if your thinking about it and want more info, we are available for a call with you).  Click the image to jump on the free week bus! 

Or PM me for more info about our mentorship. 

Blessings family… So much love xxx Jadee

Hi I'm Jade, I'm a Women’s Wellness Mentor & the Creatress of the Sacred Women Mystery School

I help intuitive women who hold kick-ass space for others, to stop the cycle of over giving, claim all that they are & step into the driver's seat of their life.

I do this through the 'womb spiral method' which is a ‘way of being’ that aligns with the natural cycles of life, taps into the fabric of feminine consciousness & generates cycles that bring success.  Archetypes, relationship support, sacred sexuality, yoga, mindfulness, feminine embodiment, lunar, solar and menstrual cycle mapping & cosmic guidance. 

By understanding the conversation between body, womb, heart and mind we can truly embody all that we are and walk the earth from sovereignty and creative freedom. Then we get to kick ass and make the change we are yearning for... What you want wants you too!! 🙏❣️🌿

Book a womb wisdom session or tarot reading with me here (click image below)

Solstice Blessings

Blessings Glorious Queens xx

No matter where you are in the world the solstice portal & the 3 days of dark moon that follow mark the end of this year according to the lunar and solar calendar. Yeah baby, its new year's!!!!

This potent astrological moment provides a powerful opportunity for us to enter the new decade from a place of soul alignment.

Seeing our life's events through a new perspective is a powerful way to show up for ourselves as we kiss goodbye a whole decade at the solstice portal between now and the new moon eclipse on 25th.

“Sometimes the difference between pain and pleasure is perspective !

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— Jadee

Ooooooo the lips I've had the privilege of kissing this decade! I'm only just thinking of this now as I write...

Kisses hello, kisses goodbye, kisses that linger long, big sloppy baby smooches, kind kisses on the cheek, shoulder kisses (oh how I love a shoulder kiss!), kisses in erogenous zones, 'kiss me more' kisses, oh the glory of kissing!

Even kissing goodbye those that I have loved so deeply, the kisses that stay on our lips forever. This decade I have kissed goodbye my 2 grandmothers, my dad and on Tuesday this week my dear dear elder and mentor Jillie, a kiss goodbye in this form forever.

Kissing goodbye 2020 and the decade it represents is such a powerful act of reverence. I have created a little reflection ritual for you to do before the new moon to help you glean goodness from the pain and celebrate your triumphs...

This portal when the Sun enters Cancer and the dark moon takes us into 3 days of deep listening is a recalibration point. A time of reflection and giving thanks for the gifts gleaned, lessons learned, help given. Its a time where we stop and marvel at the infinite wisdom in the cycles of life. The seed that was planted in our consciousness and cracked open through pressure, that grew in the light of love from Self and others, became a sapling, then a tree, it blossomed and grew fruit. The harvest was gleaned and the leaves fell to the ground, the light grew darker and the tree of our dreams was called into a great big rest to prepare for the next cycle.

This beautiful, majestic tree of life is constantly ebbing and flowing in innate rhythm. It needs no instruction, it just needs us to listen. So tonight, wether you are in the northern or southern hemisphere. Wether this is the peak of winter, or the peak of summer I invite you to reflect upon the unfolding of your life. Life is unfolding, on its own, all it asks of you is to show up, to listen and ask for the next step. Sometimes that step is to listen, reflect and rest. Sometimes it is to take action. Sometimes its to wait. Sometimes it is to let go. Which phase of life are you at?

Gratitude is one of the key activators for our inner light and it connects us to an expanded state of being. No matter how upside down your world may be right now, I invite you to invite the light of the Sun into your heart and ask for help to see what you can be grateful for as you do the ritual below.

My dear elder Jillie Collings passed away this morning. She is the one who introduced me to the wisdom of astrology and started me on the path of the priestess. She introduced me to the power of realigning my life with the cycles, which has lead to my life’s work of being a menstrual cycle mentor. Her wisdom lives on through me. Before she passed, she gifted me some very special information to share about the next phase of feminism on the planet, its so juicy and I feel so so blessed to co author this book that is birthing with her, to share her wisdom and he life’s work with you all is such an impeccable honour. I’m heart broken that I will never hear her laugh again in the form that she was in this lifetime, and so happy for her that she is with her beloved stars.

Bowing in reverence for our elders and their wisdom xx May we remember our ancient lineage wisdom & reclaim all that we are xx

2020 Timeline Ritual

You will need

Paper and pen to write on

Paper to burn

Paper to keep

Ritual items: fire proof bowl, lighter or matches, water.

Create a sacred space for yourself, light a candle, some incense, make sure your hydrated and fully available to yourself, preferably uninterrupted (but hey do what you can sexy mumma).

To begin ground yourself, walk on the earth, tune into the life beneath your feet and within every cell. Breath in for 4, out for 8 and come into your body.

Start by writing 2010 on your paper, write down all of the major events from the past 10 years, the year they occurred, what you learnt from them, and what you are celebrating letting go of. What's your take away and what are you proud of yourself for in that situation?

Write and write, think about the relationships you have fostered, follow the trail of the people you have met and the opportunities that have opened because of the them.

Then on a separate bit of paper, write down a list of the qualities you are letting go of. E.g for me, confusion!

Take a moment while the moon is waning, in her letting go phase, think of the gift that composting is, its the act of just letting nature take over and alchemize the shitfactory! So...... Connect to the innate wisdom that all substances and energies can be alchemised. Then burn your list... As the list burns say 'This ............... I now let go, free from me may it be so'

When you are done gift the ashes to the earth or mix them with water and water your plants. Take a shower and you are complete.

On the new moon you can do a 2020 vision ritual!!!!

Thank you beloved sisters for your support, contribution and love this year... I feel so so blessed by your presence in my life... Woaw I cant believe this is my life! I'm so blessed xxxxx

Last minute shopping??? Do you have a friend who is struggling and could use some guidance at the moment?

Gift vouchers for christmas... Tarot readings, Cycle Mapping Sessions & Feminine Energy Mentoring xx

Alchemy in the red tent doors open New Moon in January 25th

A Prayer For The Mothers

Its Mothers Day in Australia, I am reflecting on the Mother in all women, in all beings. The fabric of the Mother who calls us to remember that she is powerful and creative, regenerative and fierce. SHE is the answer to replenish that which is broken, SHE never turns away from her children. SHE who is unconditional love, a place of sanctuary for the entire universe. For those of us who practise earth based spirituality, every day is a day to honour the mother. I wanted to share a prayer with you today. And to honour the Mother in all women. You who are creating, you are mother, you who are dreaming a new world into being and offering your gifts to be of service, you are mother.

Happy Mothers Day :: I see you xxx Jadee

To the Mother principal I bow.

To the Mother Archetype in all beings I stand in awe.

She who lights up the night sky and lights a silvery path showing us the perfection of natures cycles and the gift of life, death, rebirth. Grandmother Moon I love you.

She who blossoms in Spring. Who Nourishes and Orgasms and Provides in Summer. Who yields harvest and surrenders herself to the let go in Autumn. She who faces death and the return to nothingness in Winter.

I bow to the Mother who provides all of my needs, she who I came to serve & commune with Gaia, Mother of all. Every day I am awed by the privilege of walking in harmony with such an absolutely supremely stunning, abundant and loving sentient being as you my Earth Mother Gaia Ma.

To the Cosmic Mother who flicks her hair and send comets shooting through the sky. To the Asteroid Mothers who hold the fabric of the feminine in their expression

To the Lioness Mother who walks with ferocity and courage even when she is scared as fuck in this crazy ass world. Having the courage to walk in awe and wonder even in the midst of destruction and chaos.

To those who Martyred themselves so we can have the freedom we have today, who stood in the front lines to leave a legacy of freedom for the sons and daughters who came after them. To the Mothers who were victimized and still rise to greet the new day and to create art from their pain.

To the Primal Mother who is the force of creativity and life itself, who dances with consciousness to create this beautiful interplay of lovemaking we call life.

To my Mother of Birth Margaret Mason, you are by far the woman I respect and admire most, I bow before the woman you are and the gift of life you have graced me with through your womb. What a beautiful nourishing womb you created my body with, thank you.

To the Mother within myself who has created many smiles on many faces, songs that bring joy & connection, remembrance and freedom through my my soul gifts that I am privileged to share with generosity. To my womb that has the power to create the MY LIFE and my purpose. And to the work that has birthed through me over these years of deep decent into plutonium mystery "The Womb Spiral Methodology"

I stand in awe of this creation of my soul and am so honored to prepare to share with the world. And to the first Mothers, those who still keep the sacred woman fire burning calling us home. I bow Thank you Great Mother, May you be seen, valued and respected in the hearts of all beings. May all beings experience creative freedom, happiness, and know the path of the Divine Connection with You xxxx

Ancient Wisdom For Modern Women

There are many cultures of the world that have their own version of the medicine wheel, the Celts, the North American's, the Australian aboriginal, the South American, African & Norse.

The medicine wheel represents the cycles of life that are constantly spinning and moving. It shows how life evolves and how all of the elements that make up this thing we call life work together towards our unfolding destiny. The circle of the wheel represents interconnectivity of all beings. It teaches us how to align with the natural cycles so we can harmonize that which is out of balance. Each direction has an element which governs an aspect of life i.e. Spiritual, Mental, Emotional and Physical level.

We women have our own ‘cycle of life’ as we grow from child, to maiden, to mother, to queen, to crone (as well as through all of the other archetypes of the feminine principal if we are aware and playful with consciousness!)

When I became aware of this information in my own personal practises I called it 'the medicine wheel of the womb'. 3 years later I found out that the medicine wheel of the womb is an ancient priestess teaching. This is my version, as it came through my ancestors & guides to me. I want to acknowledge that I am an Australian born celtic woman. The indigenous ways of my ancestors were wiped out by the roman empire when they colonized the land that is now called Britain. My celtic grandmothers have been walking with me, taking me deep into the memory of the indigenous ways of celtic women before colonization, this information I am sharing with you is channelled information.

Within the circle of the medicine wheel of the womb we find the knowledge of the spiral of the womb & our journey of womanhood. It reveals key core principals we must master on our feminine energy journey. As we take the journey from princess to queen, we meet every archetype along the way and learn how to weave the elements of air, fire, water, earth, ether. The medicine wheel of the womb holds the keys to unlock a life of deep acceptance, pure potentiality and creative freedom. Where we can truly embrace all of the faces and phases of our journey as woman.

Before we dive into the medicine wheel of the womb, lets take a little journey back in history.....

Lets turn back the clock to the days when women lived in tribe and were not exposed to unnatural lighting and expected to push and strive on a 24 hour cycle. We bled with the moon at the beginning of the cycle, as the moon went from dark to new, from the end of the old to the new cycle.

All of the women in the tribe would go into dream time together, they would celebrate, do ceremony, cry, laugh, pray, nurture, pamper and nourish each other. The men would wait with anticipation for the wisdom that their women folk would bring back for the tribe when they returned. The feminine were celebrated for their menstrual wisdom & feared (respected) for the power that they contained. Which is why it makes sense that the church banned women who were bleeding from attending & why the man folk of the 1800's decided to take away our sacred womens business by making it illegal for midwife's to practice without a male doctor present.... They took away our power because they feared it... Too much power baby!!!

Guess what? The ancient wisdom is back, and now is the time for us to embrace the wisdom and the power of our cycle again!!!! Are you ready?

Side note: If you are not bleeding at the new moon at the moment, there is nothing wrong with you, a lot of hype is going around about us being out of sync if we are not bleeding on the new moon. I'm here to crack that open and give you permission to begin to embrace your cycle, as it is today. We live in a very different society these days and we are in a very different place in the evolution of humanity compared to our ancestors. Which means we all bleed at different times, times that are perfect for us personally, times that are aligned with the wisdom grandmother moon is desiring to illuminate in us for our personal and spiritual growth. We will bleed at the time that is aligned with what we need for our own evolution in the medicine wheel of our own personal life. Today we are looking at the basics to introduce you to the phases and your magic!

Each Direction has an archetype, an element, a moon phase and a correlating phase of our cycle. Our bodies reflect the cycles of the moon. Every month, the moon is dark before she is new, this is one of the most important keys to feminine wisdom. We bleed before we enter the spring energy on day 4 of our cycle. Our cycle begins and ends with our bleed/menses/internal winter whereby for 7 days when we enter the energy of the crone/wise woman phase and allow the old previous cycle to shed, listen to our internal wisdom & prepare for the new phase.

North ~ Crone/Wise Woman ~ Earth

We experience the archetype of the wise woman once a month for a reason. She takes us into the realms of our inner knowing, holds up the lantern of truth to guide us through our shadows & gives us the wisdom we need for the month ahead. This occurs from half way through the luteal phase (around day 25) & continues throughout the whole of our menstruation phase. During this 7-9 day cycle (depending on how long you bleed for) we enter into deep rest and replenishment. This is when our energy is at its lowest, like the Dark/New Moon and the season of winter. We are releasing all of the old that was not needed and making space for the new. It's the 'Beginning' of the coming phase, from the depths of this rest, release & let go we are gifted with the vision to 'see' our lives from a new prospective. With the lantern of truth illuminating everything that works, and everything that no longer works for us.

Take note that we begin with resting, the energy is at it's lowest so we need to prepare for this time by scheduling less into our diaries and engaging in nurturing supportive activities that tap us into the sensitivities that are guiding us home. This is the time when we let go of what was not needed in the previous month. Its happening both physically as our body bleeds the unfertilised egg out. Its happening emotionally as we bleed and let go of what is not serving us, we shed the layers that have been holding us back. And we experience birthing pains, birthing into the fertile soil of our subconscious mind as we enter dream time & dream our deepest desires into being. This is POWERFUL sisters! Your inner wise woman, the dark wild goddess, is powerful beyond belief. She has your back, she will not allow you to ignore your inner truth......... You my darling are not crazy, hyper sensitive, mentally unbalanced, hormonal.... You are wisdom herself, and she is calling you home, to your truth. Our bodies are the key to unlocking our wisdom & our truth. The truth will set you freeeeee!!!

When we create space in our calendar & utilise our hyper sensitivity during our wise woman phase this becomes the most profound time of the month to dream into the month, year, ahead. With the same sanctity we approach the new moon, we can approach our menstrual phase, as it sets us up for the month ahead.

If we prepare in advanced so that our lifestyle support this deep rest & replenishment you will find your weeks and month flow with so much more ease.

It's a good idea to plan ahead think about taking into your wise woman cave your fave foods that nourish you, then choose healthy versions of your comfort foods (e.g cocao, coconut oil, shredded coconut, dried fruit 7& nuts, tahini, and a dash of agave or honey if you are a massive sweet tooth is an EXCELLENT chocolate substitute). Have your meditation on your phone, buy a journal, create a play list on sound cloud or you tube, have a great book, write a list of what you would like to bring with you into your womb cave. What exercise is REALISTIC? Running for 1 hour when your bleeding is not really supportive, but a yin/restorative yoga class is! Or dancing your sensual body around to some soft sexy alluring middle eastern tunes is!

East ~ Maiden ~ Air

We move out of the depths of replenishment feeling 'fresh' revitalised and refocused! We enter the follicular phase when our body starts being flooded with nest building hormones. The uterine wall starts creating a nest for life. We feel awesome as our bodies begin to move towards ovulation. This is the energy of the WAXING MOON, we are inspired, we have been replenished, the seeds of our dreamtime are planted in the fertile soil of this Spring energy, this is the best time to start new projects and create a new approach to the way you do things. To begin our Self Care Inspired Actions! Working with the archetype of Aphrodite during this phase is amazing, she is so sensuous, alive and magnetic!

Start new regimes, initiate new cycle focus with inspired actions, make dates, go shopping, take singing lessons, utilise this amazing fresh energy to invoke how you would like to interact with the coming cycle... Set the wheels in motion for what you want to create this month.

South ~ Mother/Empress ~ Fire

We then enter into the Mother phase 'Pregnancy/Birthing/Nurturing', we are 'pregnant' with our desires, idea's and dreams. We are ovulating. For a lot of women this is manifest as the Earth Empress in all of her glory! Your business idea's will be flowing. Your body is craving a baby (maybe tricking you, be aware of the hormone's influencing you at this time). We become total SQUISH!!!! Love bombs on legs!!!

This is the energy of the FULL MOON & summer, where we naturally want to go out and frolic in life. We feel connected to nature and are celebrating the amazing fruit that is showing up in our life. Our bodies are flooded with hormones and we feel amazing, on fire and able to do so much more than we were able just 14 days ago.

Plan your "peak activities" for the month during the mother/ovulation phase . This is prime time for business activities that need more energy. For getting into your garden and doing the hard yaka, or plan the hard work stuff you've been putting off for this week. Remember to plan to celebrate, socialise... If your holding a party, plan it on the full moon, or when you are ovulating.

West ~ Queen ~ Medicine Woman ~ Water

In our Sacred Women Tribe we refer to this time as "Medicine Woman/Queen". This is the energy of the WANING MOON, Autumn. It mirrors our premenstrual phase/menopausal phase. This is the time when the leaves begin falling back to the earth, the harvest is being reaped from the seasons past & we are preparing for the next season/phase and we become 'extra sensitive', go into the deep rest of winter and the wise woman.

The sensitivities we experience during this time are chemical. We have entered the luteal phase, our body has registered that she has not received seed and the hormones are leaving the nest so to speak. The sensitivities we feel during this time can become our greatest gift if we know how to use them. This is why we work with the "medicine woman and our queen". Your medicine woman knows what she needs, and your queen knows what she wants, like's and doesn't want. She is the ruler of your inner kingdom after all, so get to know her well.

This is the best time to go and see a healer, meditate more, listen to your inner queen. Do the IAM THE OBSERVER MEDITATION and the premenstrual workbook. Take your seat on the throne of your inner kingdom and come from a place of inner mastery. Connect with the medicine woman within who knows how to guide you and lead you towards the healing you are yearning for.

Use the whole month to prepare for this time, this is when most women fall off the bus! This is the time when we can see clearly what is not working, we are being invited to release the clutter in our subconscious minds, to prepare for the new beginning that comes after our bleed.

I can hear you all breathing a sigh of relief..... Yesssss you are normal! You don't need to fit into a rigid structure, in fact {{ subscriber.first_name }} your not meant to, you are here in this feminine body to utilise these incredible energies and flow with the cycles of your body and Grandmother moon. Each sacred cycle we have the opportunity to begin again, each bleed is a new beginning.

Putting this all into practice

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Creative freedom & alignment with our natural cycles vs busyness of activity creates a momentum that is sustainable & breaks the cycle of burnout. We have more time and space for the things that truly fill our cup. We engage in actions that reflect our value, we walk with our head held high in an authentic way because we are conscious participants in our own narrative rather than being washed around by life's constant demands and fear.

When life is our art it becomes effortless to live in the stream of creative freedom. Our visions become reality when we master our feminine energy and the medicine wheel of the womb. We natural spiral towards our soul path and our deepest yesss for life.

Sending you so much love sister heart ... Go to the class and workbooks here

xxx

Are you the too much woman?

Wisdom Question:

Do you judge your deepest desires as too much, your needs as too much, your way of sharing your truth as too much?  

Too much for whom?

Feeling afraid to appear to be too much is so common, too many humans are afraid to be all that they are because they fear that they will be judged/shamed/pushed away/labelled/told they are not ladylike or ungentlemanly.  What the ACTUAL FUCK? That’s a ticket for all flavours of suppression, pain and limitation. If limitation and suppression are on one side of the coin, flip that coin, because on the other side its freedom & contentment. I hope that this post helps you flip the coin and reclaim your freedom a little more, it’s your birthright to be happy and free to create your life however you want to create it!

We don’t need to look very far back in history to find this subliminal message woven into society: “Don't rock the boat or you will be cast out of society & you will have no value”. I want to invite you to start popping some pockets of consciousness open, to align with a different belief so you can create a different experience for yourself and the generations that come after you.

We have come a really long way, thanks to the men & women who carved the path before us.  Yet we still have so much work to do as a collective.  Which is why it’s important that we have real conversations with ourselves and each other, through witnessing we are then able to change old ways of being that don’t work.  The conversation that you have with yourself is the most important conversation you will ever have right?!

So let’s use the gift of wisdom questions to open up this conversation and deepen our relationship with ourselves.

I’m so excited to be introducing weekly wisdom questions. I will be sending out wisdom questions like this one for you to ponder.  The key is in witnessing yourself so that you can recognise where you may be in self-judgment or resistance to your right now experience. If you can witness the things that come up for you, where you get triggered and start resisting, you can begin to expand your awareness, if you are willing to release old stories the practice of wisdom questions is a super powerful tool. Especially when explored in a circle of potent women, it’s even more amplified to shift and open to greater possibilities. Massive change happens.

Ways to work with the weekly wisdom question:

*Journal

*Pray

*Meditate

*Reflect while you drive the kids to school & do other rockstar mum/partner activities

*Enquire as you express your domesticated goddess excellence

*Take it into your pleasure practice or your lovemaking

*Exercise

Whatever form your flavor of mindfulness takes, explore the crevices of you, be courageous, be real and be willing to be totally imperfect without judgment or a need to fix. Just be, witness and allow.  

Then… After witnessing and allowing, commit to yourself by asking these questions…

What are you ready to move towards? 

What are you letting go of? 

What belief system do you need to have to propel you to move towards your commitment to yourself?

What would it take to release this belief?

How will it feel to have no resistance at all to who you want to be in all of your wildness?

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Reflect on the things that light you up about this and why. What permission is opening in you reading this?

There she is. . . The “too much” woman.

The one who loves too hard, feels too deeply, asks too often, desires too much.

There she is taking up too much space, with her laughter, her curves, her honesty, her sexuality.

Her presence is as tall as a tree, as wide as a mountain.

Her energy occupies every crevice of the room.

Too much space she takes.

There she is causing a ruckus with her persistent wanting, too much wanting.

She desires a lot, wants everything—too much happiness, too much alone time, too much pleasure.

She’ll go through brimstone, murky river, and hellfire to get it.

She’ll risk all to quell the longings of her heart and body.

This makes her dangerous.

She is dangerous.

And there she goes, that “too much” woman, making people think too much, feel too much, swoon too much.

She with her authentic prose and a self-assuredness in the way she carries herself.

She with her belly laughs and her insatiable appetite and her proneness to fiery passion.

All eyes on her, thinking she’s hot shit.

Oh, that “too much” woman. . . too loud, too vibrant, too honest, too emotional, too smart, too intense, too pretty, too difficult, too sensitive, too wild, too intimidating, too successful, too fat, too strong, too political, too joyous, too needy—too much.

She should simmer down a bit, be taken down a couple notches.

Someone should put her back in a more respectable place.

Someone should tell her.

Here I am. . . the Too Much Woman, with my too-tender heart and my too-much emotions.

A hedonist, feminist, pleasure seeker, empath.

I want a lot—justice, sincerity, spaciousness, ease, intimacy, actualization, respect, to be seen, to be understood, your undivided attention, and all of your promises to be kept.

I’ve been called high maintenance because I want what I want and intimidating because of the space I occupy.

I’ve been called selfish because I am self-loving.

I’ve been called a witch because I know how to heal myself.

And still. . . I rise.

Still, I want and feel and ask and risk and take up space. I must.

Us Too Much Women have been facing extermination for centuries—we are so afraid of her, terrified of her big presence, of the way she commands respect and wields the truth of her feelings.

We’ve been trying to stifle the Too Much Woman for ions—in our sisters, in our wives, in our daughters.

And even now, even today, we shame the Too Much Woman for her bigness, for her wanting, for her passionate nature.

And still. . . she thrives.

In my own world and before my very eyes, I am witnessing the reclamation and rising up of the Too Much Woman.

That Too Much Woman is also known to some as Wild Woman or the Divine Feminine.

In any case, she is me, she is you, and she is loving that she’s finally, finally getting some airtime.

If you’ve ever been called “too much,” or “overly emotional,” or “bitchy,” or “stuck up,” you are likely a Too Much Woman. And if you are. . . I implore you to embrace all that you are—all of your depth, all of your vastness; to not hold yourself in, and to never abandon yourself, your bigness, your radiance.

Forget everything you’ve heard—your too much-ness is a gift; oh yes, one that can heal, incite, liberate, and cut straight to the heart of things.

Do not be afraid of this gift, and let no one shy you away from it. Your too much-ness is Magic, is Medicine. It can change the world.

Don’t believe me? Check this: All of your favourite women, the ones who’ve made history, the ones who’ve lent their voices for change and have courageously given themselves permission to be exactly who they are. Some examples: Oprah, Ronda Rousey, Beyoncé, Kali, Misty Copeland, Janet Mock, Mary Magdalene . . . they’re all Too Much Women.

So please, Too Much Woman: Ask. Seek. Desire. Expand. Move. Feel. Be.

Make your waves, fan your flames, give us chills.

Please, rise.

We need you.

BY EV’YAN WHITNEY

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I hope to see you in circle, and I hope that this week brings you so much wildness and freedom!!! Your not too much, your dreams and desires are your playground, you are enough, and its your turn… 

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Pisces ~ Tap into the Oracle Within!!

Pisces season begins February 19 beloveds! This means we are being invited into the waters of intuition and womb wisdom. In the medicine woman tarot, the card that rules Pisces is ‘The Grandmothers’ & is ruled by the Moon. Granny!!!!! Granny Moon!

Grandmother moon governs the tides of intuition, emotion, the subconscious mind & feminine cycles. Which means this is the month that we jump into the drivers seat of our life and start driving baby!   When pisces season comes around we are being moved us as a collective to new awarenesses through the subconscious mind.   Tapping into the subconscious mind & being in the drivers seat of our thoughts is the key to creating our life rather than feeling like life is happening to us.

 

All that ever was, will be, or is now is contained within my mind

Pisces season teaches us the immense power that lies within our bodies to create the world that manifests before us.  Learning how to have conversations with ourselves & truly listen to the 'still small voice within' is key to truly knowing oneself. To truly know oneself, and be able to choose ones internal conversation is the difference between ‘life happening to us’ and ‘being an active participant in life by choice’.

Place your hands on your heart or your womb for a moment as you read these words. Within your body you hold all of the answers to all of the questions you need answering right now. Take a breath and invite the knowledge of the entire universe that resides within to make itself known. Follow your breath and watch it light up pockets of awareness. Thoughts, feelings, images, sounds, songs, these are all the subconscious mind providing clues that open the doorway to deep contentment. 

As we calm our minds, learning how to redirect our thoughts with mastery, merging intention and action, choice and free will, we begin to create an environment where our inner answers can become tangibly herd.  The doorway to the entire cosmos opens up within us and we become the magic of life itself.

I’m holding a free course to help you with this its called Oracle Within, register here… It begins February 24th…

Feminine energy & ancient wisdom teach us that we are the portal of life itself, and that it is our unique responsibility to use our thoughts and our bodies to create the reality that manifests before us.  What we think and what we DO in response to this thought determines our experience in the physical reality of tomorrow.

'Trust the body' is the message that comes with the Grandmother Medicine Woman Tarot Card (and the sun sign of Pisces).  Our glorious bodies are responding to every single thought, action, interaction that is presented to us during a day.  Our body is responding/reacting on a subtle level & gives us feedback through feeling response to show us if a situation is right for us.  Your thoughts lay our a blue print, your body tells you what to do moment by moment through feeling response.

 

Does it feel light and expansive? 

We are on track, life is open like a flower, the sun is rising on a path that is light for us.

Does it feel dense and contracting? 

We are receiving signs that what we are investing our time, thought and energy into is not aligned with our highest soul's needs.

Can I ask you a few questions?

How much time do you spend over riding your intuitive guidance? 

Are you making deals with yourself because of attachment or fear of survival?

I have spent way too much time in my life not listening to my intuitive knowing.  Listening to my womb was not a concept that was ever introduced to me until I started to seek for answers as to why I was having such painful and traumatic periods.  What I found was a well of wisdom & knowing and I’m beyond excited to assist you to access yours. Sign up for the course here.

YOU my friend are a portal of power, information & wisdom!!!! Your body is an information receptacle. The sun and the moon beam information, through light, into your mind, your body & especially your womb, every moment of every day. The cosmos is guidance you into for your unique life, every moment of every day, how incredible is this. Which is even more reason why its important to learn how to filter information you are receiving and make pro active choices. Life is not happening TO you, its inviting you to jump in the drivers seat and participate WITH it. 

You came here with a specific frequency, a radio station that is your soul song. And its time to create room for your voice to be valued and nurtured. Starting with you listening to you beautiful. It is time for us all to listen to the still small voice within and to really receive the guidance being offered.

Thought and Action; Will and Movement, these are the things which re organise your bodies cells. Old cells embodying old idea's die & new cells embodying new idea's are born. You are constantly recreating yourself in your own image.

This statement is both profound and scary all at once.  The way we inter react with ourselves determines the person we become tomorrow. 

"If nothing is changing, change your mind instead"

Our creative energy is so powerful that it has to go somewhere.  If we are not utilizing our gifts, talents & making choices that really direct the stream of our creative energy into the world our body will create excess.  This could be in the form of extra body weight, sickness, discomfort, or perhaps an actual human (baby).

When we begin to truly realize how powerful we are to create our world with our thought life, we have unlocked the keys to manifestation & opened the doorway to a creative, free flowing, purpose filled life. 

"My body incorporates my wisdom, love & action and expresses in grace".

Check this little spin on words: imagination - image in. What we image in takes creative energy and turns it into form.  As we imagine, meditate on and reflect, new knowledge is entering our entire body, our cells & our entire experience therein.  Our mental narratives literally become our physical organism (body).

So be radicle! Take up your warrior woman sword & cut away the thoughts & ways of thinking that keep you in limitation.  Make the time to meditate observe and reflect, to ask key questions that will help you identify the prison you may have put yourself inside.  The door is open, the keys are in your hand, perception is the power that sets us free.  (If you are needing assistance with this book a feminine mentoring session)

Our personality has its own desires, as well as the structures & societies ideas about the A-Z steps to success.  Many of us have been educated to by pass the body & just push on like a good kid!!! This is detrimental!!! No wonder sickness, burnout and mental health are prolific in our world today. One of the modules in Oracle within is ‘cycle mapping’ which is learning how to create cycles that bring success. Instead of pushing ourselves and burning out striving for success, no bingo! Nature does not strive to bloom a flower, that becomes fruit, it just allows the cycles of the sun, the moon and the elements to be its guide.

Here are some steps to assist you to find a new way of creating your future outcomes without burning yourself into the ground.  So you can walk to the beat of your own drum and really deepen your relationship with life itself and hear the voice of guidance within you! 

STEPS TO BECOMING A conscious participant in the drivers seat of your life:

1.  CONCEIVE

The best possible reality for yourSelf

2.  BECOME PREGNANT

With the idea's that please and inspired you in the conception phase

3.  GESTATE

Health, wealth and happiness as you personally define them.   Take wonderful self care steps daily to follow through with how you want to be, think, feel and do.

4.  PREPARE

For that which you hope to manifest.  Practicality bebee, write down some preparations for this new phase, perhaps you need to arrange people to help you, or sign up for that course to learn the skills you need to articulate your vision. Hhahahhaaaaa yep sign up here

5.  VISUALIZE

Creative energy flowing towards that which you want to produce. Tap a powerful core & use it.

6.  FILL

The mind with success stories that turn you on.  Open to other peoples wisdom, ask questions, enquire, read.  Open yourself to the culture & age you most identify with.  Atlantean? Pleiadian? Middle Ages? Renaissance? The Fairy Kingdom?  Ancient Cultures? Modern Funk?  The Bohemian Dream?  Biz King/ Queen Chick?  Nomad Gypsy God/dess? Go there with your thoughts, allow fantasy to take you there, let your inner being become aroused to remember all that is available in this infinite universe of possibility.

7.  LOOK HIGH

To the Gods/Goddess's that you are drawn to, that evoke the qualities that you are drawing into your life.  Know that all of these universal blue prints are within you as well, tapping into your inner wisdom means tapping into the infinite well of consciousness that is available to you.

8.  ACT

On the impulses that come that put you closer to your goal.  Action through your body is the final processor of your creative mind.  Doing is the birthing experience.

9.  CELEBRATE

The creation is real, the idea has become flesh, our Spirit is embodied.  Relax and Enjoy!!! 

Every woman who heals herself helps heal all the women who came before her, & those who will come after her. Christine Northrup.

Lets take a moment to honour our Grandmothers, to remember them...

Both our physical and our Spiritual Grandmothers...

Eliza Jane Cavanaugh & Marjory Mason, I am so eternally blessed to carry your wisdom in my body, to carry the torch for this lineage and share what you birthed on this planet with future generations... Both through my body and my words here, I honour you both, with every cell of my being... Thanks for the good looks, the sass & the cute ass!!! For teaching me not to take shit from anyone, to walk with grace and confidence, to be a prayer filled woman who takes it to the sacred chamber of my heart first. Thank you for teaching me to be compassionate and kind & to choose the life that I want to live... Thank you for gifting me my mum and my dad... Blessed be your wombs and all of the wombs of those who come after us... 

This is my Granny Eliza, mums mum…. My womb was formed in mums womb when she was in Granny Eliza’s womb… How cool is that?! Love you Granny, thanks for the celtic gifts xxx

For my Grandmothers in Spirit, the woman who inspired the medicine woman tarot, Carole Bridges, I cannot even begin to thank you enough for this gift that has changed my life and reminded me of lifetimes worth of wisdom I had forgotten.  Your words woo me to share this gift with others, to keep on passing on this wisdom to the younger sisters who are coming through and stepping into their medicine woman path.  Thank you for being courageous to dream the dream and take action on your visions.  I love you sister, I wholeheartedly accredit you for the gift of this work, and thank you with my entire being.  May your days be blessed through all lifetimes!!! 

Vanessa, my yogic sister and mentor, I feel to honour you, as you are my grandmother in self care, in sharing the path of yoga, you believed in me when I didn't believe in myself and always showed me how to rise through your shine, and your action.. I adore you and am eternally grateful for you from the core of my being.

And to all of the Grandmothers who have been tending to the sacred woman fire since the beginning of time, calling us home to the wisdom within, from the deepest part of me... Thank you xxxxxx   

Deepest love, Jadeeee... Thanks for reading!

Aquarius ~ Ancient Wisdom Keepers in the Modern World

Beloved family, we enter Aquarius season and the realms of ancient wisdom, where we remember that we are one aspect of a much bigger picture at play. Aquarius holds the cup holding the big picture vision and pours the prayers of our star family through the highways of the sun and the moon to meet us here now. Light is information, guiding us home, lighting up our hearts, our minds, our wombs to connect with our soul purpose and what we uniquely came here to Earth to contribute to her evolution.

We have had a massive year! Aquarius is the 11th sign in the silver wheel of the astrological year. As we have made our way around the wheel in 2019 and enter 2020, we are invited to celebrate the old patterns and 3D illusions we have shaken loose.

Celebrate the warrior within you who has been courageous and broken your own heart to say yes to something so much more aligned with your soul. Celebrate the things that don’t work anymore, you are closer than ever before to deeply connect to your souls ‘YEESSSSSS’ …

Some people call this purpose, but I just like calling it my souls ‘yes’, its important to not get too caught up in the ego’s need to identify itself and attach to a purpose. Your purpose is to live in alignment with your YESSSSSSSSSS. If its a no, or a maybe, then its a not right now, or a not ever.

So here we are, finding the sweet spot with our yes, the source of our cosmic nourishment where we find that we are aligned with magick and life opens like a flower. Doors begin to open TO us, rather than us smashing them down with a crane from the stone ages. We are in direct union with the sweet spot of wisdom within because we are following our yes, living our purpose and saying no thank you to that which sucks our soul dry/suppressed or oppresses us. And my honey’s this sweet spot is a life that is tapped in, turned on, pleasure-filled and full of freedom. Freedom is an inside job! Goodby abandonment of self to serve another! Goodbye martyrdom, goodbye victim story, Hellooooooooo freedom, you taste so sweet!

A new hope wells within when Aquarius season comes around, we have done so much work and been super courageous to allow the universe to tidy up that which is not supporting our soul’s growth. We have a direct line of communication flowing to the ancestral energy. To our spiritual inheritance. Renewed health and vitality begin to land in our body as a result of the enquiry and reflection we have committed to over the months past. And our source of cosmic nourishment is the receptivity of this beautiful body temple we live in, our open heart and our souls, yes to not allow the shitty aspects of humanness to cock block it’s the fullest expression.

YOU beautiful human, have a unique way of walking this earth. YOU have gifts that only you can share in the way you do. YOU have a unique way of interpreting the information filtering through your mind, heart and womb in the form of light. The way that expresses itself THROUGH you, IS your gift, this IS your purpose. Saying yes to wanting what you want, sharing what you want to share, the way you want to, honey that’s your birthright!!!

Each generation hands the previous generation a gift, each mentor transmits his/her wisdom on to the mentee, we are constantly receiving wisdom all of the time. Are you listening? It is our destiny to follow our yes, to listen and to take the gifts handed to us from our ancestors & carry on from there. Each generation has contributed something of value to continue forthwith. Each generation did the best they could with what they have.

Our beloved sisters, and my beloved mentor Jilly Collings, the forerunners in the feminist movement, oh they fought hard!!!!! And we still have work to do, the feminine wound on the planet in all beings is needing our attention. We are better today because of what the men & women fought for yesterday. We have so much to be grateful for even in a world that right now is being exposed for its injustice (thank you Capricorn!)

So when Aquarius season comes, she breathes her Uranian energy into our hearts and she say’s ‘REMEMBER’. Remember who you are, you are a child of the sun, the moon, the stars and the sky, you are here for a moment to serve Gaia in her ascension process, you are here to protect, honour and listen to your Earth Mother.

We drink from the waters of the earth, in the presence of Aquarius, we drink from the heavens as well. It is time to take your highest vision and bring it into reality. YOU, you have a foot in both worlds. YOU are here for a reason. We dear family are the ones who can raise the consciousness of human beings once again to a level of hope. We do it in our immediate circles. We do it in our everyday decision to not feed drama, but to connect to our Yes and be the change that the world needs. To breath life into death and light into dark places. We keepers of the way of the womb, are the ones who walk in beauty within the created world.

Take a moment to feel the beauty of your bare soul. The you inside of your body that is infinite. The you that is not defined by your image, your titles, your location, your vocation, who you love, who you don’t, what you do, that’s all ego (it has its place but that’s a post for another day probably in Leo season).

Breathe into your body, connect to the light and the life in the breath, breathe in, breathe out. Feel you, your soul, feel nature all around you, feel the sun, the moon, the stars, the sky, the water, the fire, the earth, the air, the ether.

You are connected to all of life, through your breath, through your yes. All of life is waiting for you to lean in and allow the magick and support available to flow through you… Through your breath, through your yes… And as you continue to say yes, your soul will share, and the wisdom you now receive will be handed to the next generation and life is unfolding as it should.

Here are some questions to ponder/journal

Do you know the struggles of your ancestors? Are they of value to you now? Are they serving you or limiting you?

Do you know the gifts, wisdom and spiritual knowledge of your ancestors? What would it take to receive the gifts in your bloodline from the benevolent ones today

Are you aware of the ancestors of the land you are walking on? Are you communing with the rock tribe, the trees, the animals?

Are you familiar with the spiritual practises and beliefs of the indigenous of your land pre-colonization? Acknowledge the ancestors of your land now, acknowledge there was a tribe who once lived there who know how to take care of that land in a way you may not with your current scope of information.

Are you familiar with the spiritual practices of your blood family tribe? Perhaps you are Celtic like me, or African, or North American, or Australian, or Asian, or many many colours make up the tapestry of beautiful you. So much wisdom, so much waiting to be claimed and remembered. Its time beloveds, to realign.

I love you, my beloved family of many colours xxxx we are one tribe,

I’m Jade, I’m a feminine energy mentor, feather waver and sacred rebel.

I help men & women connect to what they really deeply want so that they can live in alignment with their fuck yes and say no to limitation. My gift is in helping you come home to yourself. To align more with the natural cycles of life and less with stressville. If your yearning to feel enchanted with feminine energy, to access your courage, your voice and your wisdom I can help you! If your done with old boring patterns of sabotage & staying with what’s ‘comfortable’ now is the time to say yes to all that life can be for you.

Click here for a free discovery session (You might think I’m bat shit crazy or I just might be the facilitator of change you have been looking for, lets find out. Zero obligation, let’s just have a cuppa and see if it feels aligned for us to work together)

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Dark Moon Capricorn ~ Structure Can Fuck Itself In The Face!!!

Structure Can Fuck Itself In The Face!!!

Capricorn is ruled by Saturn, the lord of time and space, master of illusion and revealer of the guru within. Right now you could be having some massive resistance to time, managing time could be your biggest challenge, you could be freaking out that time is running out. Please take a breath and come back to you for a minute! This is Saturn the master of illusion at play, showing up as the devil that plays tricks on us until we remember that we are not limited by karma, time or anything unless we identify with it.

In the tarot, Capricorn is the DEVIL card… Ooooooooo the devil, lucifer, the lord of music and shiny things, hmmmmmmmmm sounds like Saturn with his shiny rings of societal pressure… ‘Get this, buy this, be this, dont be that, do this, not that, over here, click this…. OMG it’s relentless!!!’ Alluring us into beliefs that keep us separated from freedom & our big phat fuck yes to what REALLY makes our soul sing. Only to take us down a path where we realize that the very thing that we believe to be our limitation is our door to freedom. Stay with me, let’s explore this…

In the medicine woman tarot the card for the Devil is the Trickster, Caroline Bridges talks about how the devil spelt backwards is LIVED. When we consider the illusion of time, and the belief that we are bound to a God that judges us if we do the wrong thing here we can see that aint livin!!! (insert bcf ad here)

What does it mean to truly live when we are not being tricked by fear?

To truly live is to do whatever we want to do when there is no monkey on our shoulder saying ‘you should yayayyayayayyaayaaa, cracking a whip and squeezing the life out of your soul’… To live is to remember that life is unfolding on its own, that we cannot manipulate, or manage time, and that what is meant for us will remain in our lives or fall away.

Fear does not exist in the present.

Right now, connect to your breath, focus on the light coming through the screen, or the light in the trees, now on the light in your heart (even if it feels dull). Welcome to the present moment, where fear does not reside without the stories of the mind stealing its peace.

This now moment is so rich in possibility, it is connected to the essence of life itself, this moment is pure magic.

The more that we can commit to just be here and now, the more illusion & fear shatters in the light of awareness.

When the moon is in her dark phase, in Capricorn, she’s at the end of a cycle. Which means a cycle in your life is also completing. The illusions may be running and running and running stories and stories and stories about missing out, or not being enough, or something he or she did or didn’t do and why, or why you are not lovable or why you should or shouldn’t have done this or that, or how your gonna make the money to buy the land to fuck off out of this society that makes less sense today than ever before.

Heres the thing…. It’s all happening, cycle after cycle after cycle…. YOU are the change that needs to happen within it. The only way to fuck structures that don’t serve in the face is to break the illusion by being present and here now.

Now go and pat your cat. Kidding! I’m an advocate of pussy patting tho, do that!

Heres a cool story about the devil: A dude passed away and he was on his way up to the pearly gates, he came across the devil who had innocent people in chains. He started going off at the Devil ‘how dare you? these ppl are nearly at the gates of heaven!’ yadaaayadaaaydaddaaaaa. The Devil stirred him up for a while and got old mate really fired up. Then he laughed and said, “look again mate”. Old mate looks at the chains on the innocent and realized that the chains were not locked, they were free. At any given moment in time, they could have taken those chains off and just walked up the steps to the pearly gates.

Often that which binds us is the way we perceive information through the filter of the mind and our belief systems. Yet we are only bound by that which we are identified with as true. What would it take to free ourselves???

On the dark moon we are called to free ourselves of structure & to rest. To actually stop. To let go of structure and the contraction of needing to do do do, survive survive survive. No magickal weavings, no intention settings, no letting go ceremonies, no striving. Just stop. Be present. Feel the lull of the tide before the new cycle begins and reflect on the lessons learnt. Perhaps you learnt something new this month. Perhaps the very thing that you thought was binding you is your doorway to freedom????

If you're struggling right now and need assistance book in for a soul support session or a feminine energy mentoring session. You don’t need to do it alone, I would love to help you to create some more space in your world and let go of some of those limitations and structures that may be fucking you in the face!

I’m Jade, I’m a feminine energy mentor, feather waver and sacred rebel.

I help men & women connect to what they really deeply want so that they can live in alignment with their fuck yes and say no to limitation. My gift is in helping you come home to yourself. To align more with the natural cycles of life and less with stressville. If your yearning to feel enchanted with feminine energy, to access your courage, your voice and your wisdom I can help you! If your done with old boring patterns of sabotage & staying with what’s ‘comfortable’ now is the time to say yes to all that life can be for you.

Click here for a free discovery session (You might think I’m bat shit crazy or I just might be the facilitator of change you have been looking for, lets find out. Zero obligation, let’s just have a cuppa and see if it feels aligned for us to work together)

Healing The Feminine Wound

As I write these posts I imagine us sitting and having a cup of tea together, chatting about things that Great Spirit is putting on my heart to chat about.  Sharing about whats happening in the cycles of life; astrological weather, relationship cycles, menstrual cycle wisdom, tarot readings,  sacred sexuality and real life subjects that we all struggle with as women.  

I've been feeling a little lost in 'business' land, as in not resonating with being identified as a 'business woman' or a 'priestess' or a 'goddess'. Sometimes the world of 'business and striving to create something' just doesn't feel authentic for me, the rebel in me is like 'who says I have to create an empire to keep up with the joneses to tick the boxes that i'm supposed to tick to prove that i'm a worthy human to walk the earth???  Fuck that!!!! 

The reason I do what I do is so much more than that, money and fame do not motivate me.  But making a difference does.  Creating community and culture that creates change does!  

Most mornings I wake up and ask myself how we are going to rise up out of the mess that colonisation & the patriarchal way of doing life has created in our society and on our beautiful planet.  Every where I look what I call 'the feminine wound' is staring me in the face.  Don't get me wrong I still choose the stream of magick, kindness and adventure that simultaneously resides next to the shitty things, but I'm not a blind idiot floating on a cloud of rainbows either.  Lets have a moment of honesty & real talk.  

The feminine aspect has been disrespected, suppressed, raped and pillaged & the result is the feminine wound.  Women were stripped of their rights to rule over our wombs in the dark ages and the result is that a very large portion of the world is grossly misinformed and knows next to nothing about what feminine energy is even about.  

Our brothers, fathers, lovers, sons, cousins, friends also hold the feminine wound, which is evident in relationship dynamics we see playing out in society today.  Familia trauma loops, that are a self perpetuating cycle until someone seeks to be the difference and make the change.  

As a one world family we have been displaced from our tribal lineages and the way our ancestors gathered.  We are dire need of community, places to gather and share the load.​  In a world where a masculine god is lorded and trauma has been created in his name.   In the meantime, what is not spoken is that this masculine god loves to walk alongside his femine counterpart and is not complete without her.   And here begins the healing.  The rise of the sacred feminine & the return of ancient feminine mysteries.

When we reconnect to the absolute magick and power that resides in our womb, and our sacred sexuality, we begin to heal.  When we are informed to know what these bodies are made of and no longer see them as a curse or a burden we heal.  I yearn to see a whole tribe of women step into their sovereignty world wide and take back what has been stolen, suppressed and troden on.  I yearn to see men & women informed, with adequate sexual and menstrual education that is both practical and spiritual.  

Because I know that this is the most powerful form of activism there is.  Everything we do to ourselves, we do to Mother Earth,  our body comes from her, and when we leave this body and start our next journey, this body will return to her.  Have you ever thought about how powerful that is?  

Every healing, every consciousness shift, every orgasm, every moment of reclaiming sovereignty, every time we dance on her beautiful body and reclaim our wildness, every time we overcome a feeling of being down trodden, we are healing her too.  When we take back what has been stolen and heal the feminine wound our relationships sky rocket, we heal old trauma's in the family line, we rise up out of old repetitive habits and as a result our communities strengthen. ​THIS gives me fire in my belly, this is why I do what I do, and why I share what I share.   

I know I'm here on this planet to hold space for these wounds to heal, and for us to rise up out of the ashes created by the patriachy for the last 2,500 years (ish) .  I started the mystery school because there were so many sisters around me struggling to show up, needing more support than I could personally give them, sisters yearning for breakthrough, yet feeling so alone in the journey.  These offerings, mentoring and circles are to provide a place of support and nourishment for those who are ready to say yes to connecting and reconnecting with the stream of vitality that flows through our bodies!   The stream of SHE, is the answer, and your womb is the key beautiful woman.  SHE is juicy, powerful, fluid and her birthrite is freedom.  ​​

How to be involved in the global uprising and healing of the feminine wound:

*  Every day when you wake put your hand on your heart, your hand on your pussy and say "Good Morning"

What you are doing here is acknowledging that you are woman, that your yoni (pussy) is the gatekeeper to the temple of your body.  That no matter what you have been told about your beautiful pussy she is perfect.

*  Place your hands on your womb and say "My womb is not a place of fear and pain, my womb is a place of creativity and giving birth to life"

Yes lovely, we are not all meant to give birth to children.  And even if you don't have a womb, you still have the cosmic womb within you, claim that space of creativity within you, say yes to life that streams through you.  You are a place that creates life and all that ripples out from you can create life also. (Activism yo!)

*  Say no to others to say yes to yourself

If its not a fuck yes, its a no.  Sometimes we are empowering others when we say no and we don't do it for them.   Trust that what feels kind and light in your body is going to provide what your family and friends need to.  You are a part of god, but so is everyone and the person your burning yourself out to help might just walk out the door and make a new friend who can provide a new prospective.  Say yes to you lovely, this is the beginning of taking back your sovereign domain.

*  Take back your sovereignty

A sovereign country is a country that is under its own rule.  Take back the rule of your body.  Are you allowing other people and society to push you around?  Are you being driven by fear? 

* Map your cycle

Mapping your cycle is the most powerful thing you can do to be a self monitoring human.  Hormone fluctuations play a massive role in emotional well being, when you know that your estrogen is at its lowest, you know that over reacting is a thing.  PMS can be sooooo soooo emotionally, mentally and physically taxing, and then we bleed on top of that.  Get the help you need, I'm here lovelies xx

Create a sacred space in your life for being intentional, watch the cycles of the moon, your body, the sun, the astrological weather and live with the rhythm of nature as much as you can.  You can do this even if your in a big city!! 

I’m Jade, I’m a feminine energy mentor, feather waver and sacred rebel.

I help women connect to what they really deeply want so that they can live in alignment with their fuck yes and say no to limitation. My sovereign women process is a 3 month journey home to yourself & the way of the womb. If your yearning to feel enchanted with your feminine energy, to access your courage, your voice and your wisdom I can help you! If your done with old boring patterns of sabotage & staying with what’s ‘comfortable’ now is the time to say yes to all that life can be for you.

Click here for a free discovery session (You might think I’m bat shit crazy or I just might be the facilitator of change you have been looking for, lets find out. Zero obligation, let’s just have a cuppa and see if it feels aligned for us to work together)

Capricorn...

Capricorn marks the time of the year that we celebrate the light! The Sun is beaming His powerful rays in the southern hemisphere as we celebrate the longest days of the year & we celebrate the emergence out of the darkest days towards the light in the northern hemisphere… 

Capricorn LOVEs to look for new hope to inspire us to continue on our mission to climb the mountain (Capricorn is the sign of the mountain goat).  The drive to reach the top is inspired by the compelling urge to succeed in life and provide a solid foundation for the future… These are all aspects of the element of earth; stable, foundational, focused, two feet on the ground, driven by the question "what am I doing today to be proactive towards tomorrows future?”… 

This drive can be out of balance so I want to encourage you, to stop for a moment and enjoy the view from where you are on the mountain of your life right now… Take in the sights, reflect on the journey that has brought you to this point and give yourself a pat on the back! Well done you!

This beautiful influence of determination to succeed provides an opportunity to get all of our affairs in order so that we can start the next year from a place of focused intention… Strength of will, combined with the intense love that capricorn invokes is foundational for living an effective life… Take a moment to reflect on how you are channelling your strength of will.  Are you using your will to self care and make small choices in the direction of your dreams? Or are you using your will to sabotage, to dwell on the past, to escape through excessive hard work, to strive your way to the top of the mountain?  

Capricorn in the Tarot is the Devil card, or the Trickster card in the Medicine Woman Tarot... This is about the unconscious patterns and stories that we tell ourselves that keep us stuck in situations that are holding us back... We humans all have shadows and light, we all have darkness that we battle wether we admit it to ourselves or not... The good news is that these patterns that are hidden in our unconscious that keep showing up in similar situations with different faces or circumstances is the wisdom of your soul urging you forward... It's the mountain goat inviting you onto higher ground... During this time of capricorn, take a good look at the stories you are telling yourself... Invite your Subconscious mind to shine a light on everything that is hidden in the unconscious and have the courage to climb the mountain of your life to greener pastures... These old patterns have the opportunity to be transformed in the light of the wisdom you have hidden within you... Within you is a well of knowledge and wisdom so rich and so ancient! You are more than capable of transforming these old patterns into new ones... So as you reflect on where you are on the mountain right now, take stock of your life... Write a new story, the story that serves your soul and do not listen to the trickster in your mind who wants to keep the old stories alive... Reach out and get some healing and assistance if you need... I am available, and I know many many wonderful healers I can refer you to if you don't resonate with me, the important thing to know is that help is available my beautiful friend... 

 Letting go of an old pattern or belief that has kept you going involves a mini ego death, which is important as we lay the foundatiions for what we want to build on... A letting go...  It's likened to the asana we practice at the end of every yoga practice...  Savasana ... When I watched my dad take his last breath it was the most beautiful experience, all of the struggle ended there.  He returned to his Highest and purest form, it was like he had done all of the work, he had prepared himself and then his body went into Savasana… This is the point of new beginnings… Its the end of a phase, the beginning of a new one… This is our time, while we are in Capricorn, to allow the endings and the new beginnings to settle in… To really take in the foundations that have been laid already, to prepare to build upon the rock of these foundations in the year to come… The lessons you have learnt have given you skills to use as you approach the coming seasons with mastery.  You have an inner treasure chest of tools to use as you weave the sacred mandala of your life… 

We have just come out of Sagittarius, who takes us into the I KNOW, helps us realise our universal intelligence, opens us up to Higher learning, skills and knowledge.  How perfect is this cycle of nature?  Now we can take these lessons from Saggi and actualise them with the earthiness of beautiful Capricorn… 

This is a time of inspiration & recalibration, as we initiate new goals from our new prospective.  We celebrate the lessons learnt & reflect on those we may not understand, asking for the light of awareness to shine on our questions & bring through revelation & insight 

 Here’s your official reminder to ask for assistance… You can also book a healing or a reading if it resonates with you & you need some assistance…. You don’t need to struggle on your own, help is available

Have you ever herd of the saying “Trust in Allah but tie up your camels”?  … This means look after that which you are a custodian of, the things you now have in your hand to work with…. The year past has primed us for a new slate, and if you are a bit of a gypsy like me, this is a good time to commit to a little earthing… Even gypsy’s, dreamers, creatives and cosmic wanderers need the earth element!!! So take this time to earth yourself so you may take your time and enjoy the journey up the mountain…. Now climbing a mountain may sound tiring, but have you ever seen a mountain goat climb a mountain?  Dude it’s like gliding for a bird!!!! 

My question for you is, where are you on the mountain of your life? And what reaction are you having to it? Are you stuck and bellowing, complaining that you are where you are?  Are you climbing and climbing never looking around to see where you are and enjoying the view? Are you taking your time?  Perhaps looking back in nostalgia not even aware that if you look around from where you stand now you will see that your life is opening up to the experiences you have been asking for, creating from the womb of your desire… ?  The reaction you engage in in the here and now will be your point of attraction for the days and weeks to come. So step out of reaction & into the response that will bear the fruit you want to harvest, even if it is no response its better that reaction… 

So beloved family of sacred rebels, spiritual gangsters, visionaries, gypsy’s, dreamers, renegade’s, healers and rappers (I like to pretend I’m a rapper sometimes, its fun!) Now is the time to reflect on the lightness of life as the Sun moves with His glorious awareness through the lens of capricorn… As Grandmother Moon aligns with Capricorn on the new moon in December and shines her awareness on that which has been hidden in our subconscious & unconscious minds… Know that we are so supported by our universal Grandmother, and Father, they provide the circumstances for us to clear the slate, tie up our camels, give them a feed and then ride those fuckers into the sunset heheee!  We take stock of our life through rest, replenishment, acts of self care that lift our vibration up and realign us with the frequency of love… Capricorn is devoted, and deeply loving… Receive the love that is around you, it is everywhere, in the song of the birds, the sunset and the sunrise, the mountains and the oceans, the flowers and the food, in the eyes of strangers and friends… Take time out, journal & honour where you are now… You are exactly where you are meant to be, no matter how painful that may be right now, you will rise out of the ashes like a phoenix … 

This is a time of replenishment, of hope for the days to come, of nurturing in the present moment & for enjoying the view from where you are on the mountain of life… Celebrate our triumphs and your disasters, its a beautiful messy masterpiece this life… Capricorn gives us the strength to step into mastery and take these lessons learn, turning them into a golden tapestry of art… 

Blessings on the season to come! May the ripple effects of our lives make a difference in the big picture and bring restoration and authentic love to our planet… xxxxx  

For a giggle!!!

Peace out ... Thanks for reading xxx Jade xx