YOUR WOMB IS THE ALCHEMIST in your Relationships
I’m day 25 today, my womb has officially moved into her winter phase, where I sit with the wise woman within me and the wise women around me and we have a really honest conversation. There are so many emotions boiling up inside of me as my clever womb prepares to shed the information she has gathered towards herself throughout the month. Woaw it’s been a big month!!!!
My beloved’s mum is in the UK, currently fighting for her life with covid. Today we have news that she has finally gone into ICU after her battling on her own in her little unit for the last 2 weeks. My poor honey has been losing his mind with worry, there’s literally nothing he could do from here. So I’ve been holding it down for him and his beautiful heart as it has been feeling feels that are just so damn intense!
Our womb is the portal of life, of transformation and death. When we are ovulating (or when the moon is full for women who no longer bleed) our womb is a magnet pulling towards herself the information she needs for our soul’s evolution and purpose-filled living. During ovulation (or full moon), we have a powerful opportunity to amplify and call in. Sometimes this is a portal of transformation for the feels that our loved ones do not understand or cannot currently process on their own. This can be unmet needs/unprocessed emotions etc. Especially for our sensitives and empaths who feel the feels!!
Alchemy is the process of transforming lead (pain body/limitations/beliefs) into gold (heart frequency/forgiveness/freedom/changes in beliefs).
So for me right now, after a rather intense month on the relationship front, my body now day 25 in her cycle has become the prayer. She is the alchemist, she is transforming the information she has gathered while my beloved has walked the oh so life-changing path of the possibility of never seeing his mother again. And now I get to walk with this consciously as my womb sheds her lining and the cycle completes.
The emotion that stirs in me as I write this is INTENSE! Tears are streaming down my cheeks. As the waves roll through and I witness the opportunity to spiral up and down simultaneously I stand in the gateway of soul transformation for me, my beloved, and our sacred partnership.
It’s in this premenstrual phase that most of us fall off the bus and blow up our relationship because we can see all of things and the feels feel so damn real !! Where 2 weeks ago our body was the magnet, now she has become the magnifying glass, the all-seeing eye that no one can hide from, not even us! hahahaa
It’s no wonder so many women loath this time coz the crazy lady comes loaded with grenades in 10 pockets ready to blow shit up!!! However, when we learn how to work with this phase, it is truly a point of self-mastery and transformation.
The mastery of emotion, rather than the suppression of emotion, is our portal of power filled womanhood. But this requires learning how to feel the feels, being allowed to have feelings, taking full responsibility for our feelings without blaming (very common for empaths), and weaving some serious woooooo girlfriends. Witchy power.
We are the portal of life!!! If we can create life, we can create the life we want to wake up inside of. Even though my womb did not receive seed in the form of a baby, she received the light codes and the information that I need to spiral up with the next cycle.
So what do we do with this intensity of emotion? Let’s get practical::
Fuck it out, or make slow deep love, get your beloved to play with your crystal wand and dearmor your beautiful yoni while you breathe and sigh and let it out. (Melissa teaches us this in our mentorship btw).
(Unfortunately, making love to commit to an alchemical love-making practice isn’t something we can do right now as he is at work over the next 72 hours and I have gone to the red tent (my actual tent in the rainforest at my mum’s). So instead I will make slow deep love to myself which brings me to the next point.
De armor your beautiful yoni, holding your cervix with rose quarts crystalline energy (or whatever crystal you are working with), and call in the love of the universe to filter through the sacred feminine grail gates of your body. Oh so much love! Sexual empowerment is an inside job family! But for me right now, I have to choose it, coz the stories my monkey mind is gibbering on about are fucking intense and I almost want to believe them! Sometimes I do, and then I reframe, which brings me to the next point.
Reframe the stories. Where the mind likes to go to default victim mode because of all of the over giving many of us willingly participate in regularly (hahaha omg, it’s such a journey to unravel this one, is anyone with me on this? Woaw! So much compassion for our beautiful loving hearts that just want to nurture, to serve, to love, and be loved) … Take the story, write it down, reframe it. We have to consciously choose to love our shadows in our premenstrual phase.
Yoni steam (also in our mentorship), blog to come about this very soon
Prepare with nutrition so your ready for your moon time (either the red river flowing or the dark moon for our silver queens) Make soups and juices, chocolate, stock up. I am right now coz I know this is gonna be a BIG LET GO!!!!! Carving out space in your diary and block off time just for you, your womb, and your guidance team. Right now I’m getting excited to see what the wise women show me for our collective and the next cycle of my relationships.
In closing our relationship with ourselves is the most important relationship we will ever have, how we walk this path of deep emotionality, which IS the feminine aspect is how we navigate our relationships in general. Women’s wisdom and the path of sacred sexuality and womb healing is really a call back to sovereignty, to learning how to embody the wild nature of the feminine as she serves consciousness one spiral at a time.
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Blessings family… So much love xxx Jadee
Hi I'm Jade, I'm a Women’s Wellness Mentor & the Creatress of the Sacred Women Mystery School
I help intuitive women who hold kick-ass space for others, to stop the cycle of over giving, claim all that they are & step into the driver's seat of their life.
I do this through the 'womb spiral method' which is a ‘way of being’ that aligns with the natural cycles of life, taps into the fabric of feminine consciousness & generates cycles that bring success. Archetypes, relationship support, sacred sexuality, yoga, mindfulness, feminine embodiment, lunar, solar and menstrual cycle mapping & cosmic guidance.
By understanding the conversation between body, womb, heart and mind we can truly embody all that we are and walk the earth from sovereignty and creative freedom. Then we get to kick ass and make the change we are yearning for... What you want wants you too!! 🙏❣️🌿
